do you ever get jealous of someone ( Archived) (38)

no not me

maybe when i start a relationship and i am not aware of the level of relationship she has with other guys but after a while, if i feel i can trust her, then i i am not jealous - even i i still notice!!!

No no I'm the least jealous person I know, Seriously. My ex use to try and get me jealous LOL it was a riot. When we had our differences, she would make phone calls and try to be seceret about it by going into the bathroom or some other room where I could not hear her talk, then she'll dress up, come out looking awesome and say I'll be back later.. I'll just say to her "drive safe" She use to get so pissed at me LOL To this day I find that insecurity hysterical.

Now my aunt who is an family psychiatrist believes jealously is a good thing in a relationship if it does not cause major issues. In fact she said that most women like their men to be a little jealous over them. I'm not a woman nor am I a psychiatrist.. But what the hell is that all about? Makes perfect sence though because my ex proves that.

You the man!

i think thats true - women like to see a man show he cares for her and wants to protect her

But as u say - that doesnt mean stiffling possessiveness thats for certain

And I wonder if we show that we care and want to protect her, if she assumes that's a form of jealously. I have another word for that.. LOVE

nope not jealous type, or if i do feel a tad bit jealous i hide it hehehehe... plus i got nowt to be jealous of!!

No, not the jealous type. Better to let thing lay as they are.Jealousy is often unfounded due to lack of details, and quick emotional decisions...It will usually cause more bad than good.

To me jealousy is a waste of energy, if you have no reason for it...
If there is a reason for it, it's too late anyway....

Very well said. My thoughts exactly