Your Photo is very dark, almost unable to se it here on my end and I have a good monitor. I have several graphic art programs if you would like me to fix it by lightening it up a bit for you ?
Ok, you want to know what a female see when she looks at your ad... you got it.
First off, you look like a statue, no sign of life. None of your pictures invite a feeling of interest. Your profile reads like a garage sale ad. Either little of you being expressed or you have nothing to invite a woman's attentions with. I'm sorry, if this sounds harsh... but you did ask. You're approach may be conventional where you live, but if you're open to relationships with women from/in other places, you're going to need to familularize yourself with the social customs of those locations. Showing personality in your profile is the only way to get attention drawn to it. Aside from that, you'll just have to be as patient as everyone else.
I wish you well in your search & hope you can take these comments as constructructive criticisms. :)
Honesty is no challenge. I think we've all seen these posts...
"Any takers?"... "Looking for a good woman"... "Single man looking for good girl"...
yadda yadda yadda... You know what I mean. Sometimes, guys simply do not know unless they hear honest perspectives. They do not realize, dry pleads in the forums do not earn the massive responses they would like to have. Perhaps a nudge in the right direction will help, in the long run.
I love women who are brutally honest!!! I am blunt and usually have to hold back alot of times... great!!! I found a gal to get along with! I bet if me and her were to met we'd get along famously!!!
At least when you're dealing with honesty, you know where you stand. If the truth is delivered with half an ounce of respect, no one should get their feelings hurt.
Ok, I looked at your profile... it def the picture... guys who try to be "hard" by not smiling, yeah they turn me off, and I think I am avg. So maybe it turns others off.
Alos, it says you are looking for Marriage? Well if you are looking for an USA wife, and you live near the middle east that will be hard concidering the distance. Look for a friend right now, then see what happes... post where you live (if you don't live there, then put where you live, and not where yoru from, that is alot of mistakes guys put)
I lived in Germany before, but never siad that I did, I alwasy put TX.
Better pic, more about you, and don't try to find a wife, find a friend then go from there!
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