NEVER EVER meet someone privately the first time, NEVER have them come to your house... unless you drive them there yourself. The first time you meet someone should be like in a REALLY public place, and maybe take a friend, somewhere where you can get ahold of police, or other surrounding people if things go wrong... Not to sound bad, but it IS safer, you don't want to be that static where he turns out to be bad... anyone can be ANYTHING on here...make sure no matter much you talked to him, or how many times you heard his voice on the phone you meet him in a public place... 9 times out of 10 he will be ok... but there are those rare occasions so don't take any chances if he doesn't respect that, or feels you are being too cautious then he probably ain't the guy for you since HE is the one wanting to meet... and "No roll in the hay"well just say no... if HE IS trying to get in your knickers, just say no, if he gets mad then he SURELY ain't the guy for you... for YOUR safety be careful!
I would love to go visit Anywhere but here... I have been to Germany, Berlin, Austria, Czech, Italy, Pais, France, Mexico, Canada, and I have been all over the USA, so now since I am not the one to go outand just go visit places, I figure I woudl like to go again.... I was in the Army when I visited all those other places. I have been all over Germany though, I lived there for three years. My duaghter was born there, so she has that dual citizen thing... I would like to go back to Germany when she gets older just to visit and show here where she was from, and show her where she was born. That would be really nice.
Some may be just trying to state their pint, but no one is rude on here. You may have the occasional rudeness but only because of how it is read. I don't think rude is the word either...many people "write/type" the same way they talk... that is S-A-R-C-A-S-T-I-C... not rude...
Well he got the one my dad was married in with my real mom, and I got the one he paid for and I picked out. He got his stolen in iraq and I bought him another one.. as far as I know he still has or had it, his new wife and I were talking about wedding rings and asked about his and stuff, (cause she knew he lost the old one.. ) well I told her I bought the new one and she described it to me in perfect detail... he told he it was form his brother or something, well she didn't get mad at me thats for sure, she said it was in his drawer.. so she may have gotten rid of it who knows.. mine well I kept them cause we had a duaghter, and if she ever wants it then I will give it to her.
But I am open to that pawn shop thing everyone has been talking about!
I agree with the other girls in the beginning...so see him first, check him out. You can easiliy fall for someone you havn't met, but you need to meet him first before planning a life with him, or before waiting on a guy who may or may not be there for you.
If you don't have that much as far as finacial assistance, then have him come to see you!
Me, personnly , I woudl have him come to you. If he is saying wait for him, and if he is the one saying he loves you and that you two will be together, have him prove that by coming to see you.
If he can't and you are willing to take the risk of being hurt or having the best love life where its all 50-50 then you do what your head tells you to do.. Too many people have lived with their heart, and that is not bad...but do the more reasonable thing for YOU!
You going eat, west, north or south... East...Then DC, NY, Virginia, Liberty bell, Jersey... loved and really miss teh beaches there... but yeah LOTS fo historial stuff in the east fo sho.. West, well sights to she colorado, rockies, Mt Rushmore, Hollywood(send me a post card) Grand cayon, the pianted desert, Vegas!
North, well Canada! No, but there is alots to se, now baby if you're coming to the south, write me bak I have lots on it!
Ok, I looked at your profile... it def the picture... guys who try to be "hard" by not smiling, yeah they turn me off, and I think I am avg. So maybe it turns others off.
Alos, it says you are looking for Marriage? Well if you are looking for an USA wife, and you live near the middle east that will be hard concidering the distance. Look for a friend right now, then see what happes... post where you live (if you don't live there, then put where you live, and not where yoru from, that is alot of mistakes guys put)
I lived in Germany before, but never siad that I did, I alwasy put TX.
Better pic, more about you, and don't try to find a wife, find a friend then go from there!
I love women who are brutally honest!!! I am blunt and usually have to hold back alot of times... great!!! I found a gal to get along with! I bet if me and her were to met we'd get along famously!!!
Lets see when I got married, I was skinny-sklinny... then my weight went up... it was due to a**hole hubby and having a baby. Me, well it was hard fopr me to lose the weight cause I had a C-section, but then when the hubby left me I got real skinny and looked good, then I gto bigger cause I was depressed cause I had no one to share my time...
so its not only married women, its all wmoen who are unhappy with something and def childbearing...especially if its not a "normal" birth...
but for women who have low self-esteems they may be skinnier than they think they are...so yeah, its all the emotional balance that a woman has to determine their weight fluctuating...
1. I would not do it. I think it could be bad if you got the wrong guy, and then they turned out to hurt you or something. So I would not do it ...and DO NOT SEND PICTURES.
2. Now a success story, my sister in law... well guess where she met MY brother...yup...you guessed it. Internet. Dating sites. Except the guys had to be honest about where they were. Some girls look for that. My brother is good, except back in the child hood days had too much fun. Now it has passed, he grew up, in now out and has been out, and him and his wife met after talking for a year, and then they hit it off, and they got married. So when my daughter asks her Auntie where she met her uncle she'll have to say"Well dear, we met over the Internet when your uncle was in prison..."?!?
How odd someone would post this.
BTW That is the ONLY Story I have EVER heard of working out.
Ok, this WILL sound bad, but I don't get contacted alot by alot of people, and the rare few are the ones I write back, so I can chat or talk, or whatever, it is nice to talk. But a few that DO write that are not "my cup of tea" you say, well I do one of three things..
1. Just tell them the truth, most live far away from me, or another state and tell them that its too far. To just wrote back if they wish to just talk...that covers your bases, and if they write back then just reply with a short thank you note like the guy above said..
2. Tell them that they don't match what you are looking for. I put my ideal match, and what I want in a guy for a reason... where age isn't THAT great of an issue the other things ARE, so if someone write me I check their profile, and if they are not tall enough, of too out of my type range, I reply to tell them that. BUT am nice about it.
3. Sometimes you get the ones to just "hit" on you, ask you "not so clean " things and those are the ones that you would report, or just cruse out I guess... in this other site, once (only been to two!) This guy writes right asking me all sorts of bad stuff, and I report him, but his profile remains so he writes back and I tell him to piss off cause he is not cute enough for me...(he was one of those pretty boys on a dating site to score chicks to just bed them and not date them...) so he starts cursing me out, then never wrote back... so I guess sometimes you may have to be harsh, so yeah there ya go!!!
But everyone I met here, is either real nice, some write just to chat and nothing more GREAT!!! and a few I have had to send a thanks but no thanks to... but just reply short and sweet, just don't NOT reply that is rude, if I wrote a guy, and trust me I have, and then not to write back is just rude... if I write them, I remember them, then if they don't write back, then I ignore them... once this guy wrote me three months late rs wanting to know who I was...he liked the picture... he wanted another one, so I sent the one I had up before and asked what was wrong with this one?? He wrote back saying sorry, he was dating someone... so I told him well then WHY I ask be on a dating site!
YUPPERS there ya go!!!
Be nice, just not too nice and be mean if you must, but not TOO mean!
Yeah its funny but I am kinda dumb at computers, I can check my e-mail, and find stuff on google, but not much else, but when it come to writing a program in java of C++, or trying to download stuff where I work I can do that fine! Its werid. And Thank you I feel welcomed now!
Well, that is my fun pic!! The "preppyjane means" this:
"preppy" my attitude, I have been known to be preppy before like in high school...that all changed when I was in the army for five years, so I am no longer preppy, but some would beg to differ, but I am true and nice, so don't worry, being preppy is not the same thing as being snobby, and I am NOT snobby so don't worry folks!
"jane" means that I am simple... like a plain jane... just the average girl next door kinda... simple, not much into makeup but I do where, but to the point that you can't notice it that much, I am what peopel call a plain jane... but that name was taken so I used preppy jane...
Hey, just wanted to say hello and tell yous guys who I am. I am Chanti, and I live in Texas. I am last two semester college bound into graduating with a BS in Math/Computer science. I love sarcasm and witty people and after being and commenting on a few threads here myself, I see that there are others like me.
I try to post comments to others questions, but I rarely get answered or commented back. So I figured the best way to get to know some of you and maybe ask my own questions one day is to start one of these things and go from there, so please tell me about you, who you are. I see lots of what I call "regulars" here, so introduce yourselves!
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