ok i know most men would go all the way. but women are different. i would kiss and hug but not go all the way. it means that they really want to date you and people get hurt that way. but i would like to know what people will do if the situation arises.
I will kiss and hug on a first date if it really really went well and I felt a strong connection.
But as far as going all the way? Nope. To me those are one night stands. I did the mistake once of sleeping with a man on the first date and unfortunatly he took advantage of that and played with my head and ran off. Never did it again!!
I mean I have no problems with others who do it. If its your thing then good. But not for me!
I'll kiss goodnight at her doorstep if the chemistry is there. I've never dated anybody more than a couple times. I usually end up in relationships with coworkers or girls who start off as friends. I think it's funny when guys want to do it on the first date with chicks they've just met. Don't they realize if they'll do it with them they've done it many times before on first dates? But hey, if you're both willing to get it on after one date, I guess you deserve eachother!
cutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA7,772 posts
it was a joke ,lol.If a girl does screw every first date its none of your beeswax.your just a first date not her boyfriend.Myself,I'm 42 yrs old so if I want it,I'm doing it first date or not.Hell,I'll skip the date and just get to the good stuff.lol
CautiousSingleSouthern, British Columbia Canada697 posts
It all depends on the "vibe" and when you know, you know. Sometimes you know right away that this is not going any where and the only thing you have in common is lust and clean underwear (wink) Other times you feel intoxicated and start remembering every detail, the way his neck smells, the feel of his hand in yours, the colour of his eyes, the sound of his voice ahhhhhhhhhh . When I'm that invested I am hoping he is too and he doesn't need to reduce our date to a quick and easy - you know I probably didn't answer your question and I hope I didn't confuse it more
so is it also true that men are more likely to call you again if you do go all the way? or would they call anyway just to try again until they get some? i know some women that way. and needless to say they are just friends.
I think that if you really like a man-- you better not sleep with him but rather make him work for it-- bide his time.. because men love the chase...
Am I a hopeless romantic to say that it is better when it is waited upon and shared between to people that have built a relationship or what? (*Don't start tossing pillows at me for being a bit traditional in that)...
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