Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours? ( Archived) (66)

Jul 4, 2007 12:26 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
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Jul 4, 2007 12:28 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Depends what you mean by a lower standard of life?? If you mean all the material trappings and home comforts, I have no problem living without them. I don't necessarily need a TV, microwave, DVD player, etc. I would rather live in a shack with a fabulous view, say, than a palace without one! I would relish far more lovely things in their place, the countryside, the sea, nature. Not having much money wouldn't necessarily put me off.
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Jul 4, 2007 12:29 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
Well most people here in Greece never marry before 30...It's not a custom and it has nothing to do with ethics either...I think because either they study, or because they want to have a job to settle down....I am not sure though....
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Jul 4, 2007 12:31 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
samesizefeet
samesizefeetsamesizefeethere, Malta122 Threads 823 Posts
been there done that! didnt work.

my man is movin from uk to malt to be with me, id never move tho.
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Jul 4, 2007 12:36 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
But come to think about it, a friend of mine is actually married to a 15 years younger Greek guy... laugh
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Jul 4, 2007 12:45 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
evie_girl_fl
evie_girl_flevie_girl_flFayetteville, North Carolina USA9 Threads 967 Posts
True, True... But ... sigh
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Jul 4, 2007 12:47 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
lorraine
lorrainelorraineDublin, Ireland104 Threads 2,717 Posts
yeah, i am packing right now.

I have never been to Greece, not sure it has a lower standard, but i imagine it is warmer and dryer and life is a lot slower and gentler.
yeah, i am on my way
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Jul 4, 2007 12:52 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
shaunuk
shaunukshaunuksliema, Majjistral Malta10 Threads 34 Posts
well i did it twice first from australia to the uk back in the 70's then the uk to malta anyway there is no real countries with standerds lower then an other as if you have money you can buy anything in any country and as for poverty you can find people in the streets in the us as well as the sudan for example
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Jul 4, 2007 12:54 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
moonsunleo
moonsunleomoonsunleoThessaloniki, Central Macedonia Greece2 Threads 16 Posts
Hello Dandelion
What I had in mind when I started this thread was mostly cultural differences, attitudes, manners and human behaviour,
along with living standards that you have to share with the local people, like going or driving in the streets, using public transportation,
go to a hospital when you may have to (I wish you never need that) etc.
Not to mention the situation you will face when you must work in the country where you relocated...
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Jul 4, 2007 12:57 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Okie dokie........ I obviously wasn't clear on that!! wave Just ignore my ramblings then, eh??
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Jul 4, 2007 12:58 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
moonsunleo
moonsunleomoonsunleoThessaloniki, Central Macedonia Greece2 Threads 16 Posts
The Zorba Era has passed away, I am afraid.
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Jul 4, 2007 12:58 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
tinymac
tinymactinymachilversum, North Holland Netherlands25 Threads 1,741 Posts
Age difference is a conceptual thing - if the feeling is there go for it

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Jul 4, 2007 12:59 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
dreamer_too
dreamer_toodreamer_tooTransplanted to, North Carolina USA4 Threads 208 Posts
Exactly! It's the same, moving from one state to another within the USA. It's just a matter as to what are your reasons for relocating and whether or not you have the skills to learn to adjust to a new culture.
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Jul 4, 2007 1:02 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
Well my heart is for another this period!!!laugh laugh blushing
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Jul 4, 2007 1:04 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
Jacko21
Jacko21Jacko21St. Pauls Bay, Majjistral Malta179 Threads 2,718 Posts
Totally different culture, new language. new education system if you have children, possiblility or work, pentions, affordable housing etc.......the older you get the bigger a decision it becomeshandshake
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Jul 4, 2007 1:30 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
moonsunleo
moonsunleomoonsunleoThessaloniki, Central Macedonia Greece2 Threads 16 Posts
I think you are absolutely right, Jacko.
You must be very close and supportive to your relocating spouse if she (or he) will be able to stand out
the new situation and the new life...
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Jul 4, 2007 3:26 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
dreamer_too
dreamer_toodreamer_tooTransplanted to, North Carolina USA4 Threads 208 Posts
Basically, that's what I'm saying. Even here, the states differ enough that I pray every day that none of my adult children decide to relocate their families to the state I now live in.
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Jul 4, 2007 3:27 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
dreamer_too
dreamer_toodreamer_tooTransplanted to, North Carolina USA4 Threads 208 Posts
That is the most important issue in making it work.
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Jul 4, 2007 3:45 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
moonsunleo
moonsunleomoonsunleoThessaloniki, Central Macedonia Greece2 Threads 16 Posts
Hi Dreamer

Thank you for your nice comments. You are very kind and thoughtful.
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Jul 4, 2007 4:02 PM CST Would you relocate for someone, in a far away country with a life standard lower than yours?
I'm making a lot of assumptions here, so sorry if I'm way off..
you seem like a well educated hi earner or even possibly early retired, private income, or possibly could get a decent job there!
So surely in that position your income in the new environment will be relative to the cost of living and put you in a higher life standard situation? Surely if you've met someone and have developed a relationship, you accepted her (or him) the way they were and for what they were and their environmental surroundings? I don't see a problem. Go for it. blushing blushing blushing
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