Lets face it girl – your instinct is inherent to your nature. Being a girl draws you toward a particular behaviour.
Your instinct follows an inbuilt pattern of responses or reactions to certain kinds of stimuli. Lovaboys every word and expression, each full stop, use of emoticon just oozes improper external stimuli you cant really cope with and cant dodge whatever you do.
Your instinct provides a response to his external stimuli, which moves your girl organism into action, UNLESS overridden by intelligence, which is creative and more versatile.
So your only option is – dig deep into your brain, very deep!!! and find what intelligence you can and USE it! Stop reading his comments, his flowers, his mail.
Since instincts take generations to adapt, and it’s hard for a girl like you to fight them, but you have an in-between life-saver --- your memory.
It will provide your individually stored successful reactions built upon your past experiences with previous Lovaboy. Alas - there aint one like him - is there?
We don’t know whether or not girls are bound absolutely by instinct. Predominantly, instinct is pre-intellectual, while intuition is trans-intellectual.
So be intuitive and don’t make him ooze more of his Charisma all over your screen by provocative questions.
He may come and haunt you and you wont be able to sleep at night …
Dear Dave.......you darent leave for 5 minutes....because you do...and you end up with vasectomys.....arguing.......and hijacking...... what shall you do??
Dave suggests...
Not talkin to yourself for starters....second....done even think about talkin to yourself......
I am concerned about your well being as a mate and fellow dj. As I was reading through the last couple of "Dear Dave" pages, I noticed some serious cat goulging going on. (I think some of the ladies need stiches) I could go on and on about how I am worried or I could get to my point.
Which love potion # do you use ???? Can u Please ship it overnight?? Do you think it will work in another country?
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