SandalsOPWinston-Salem, North Carolina USA545 posts
Why is it that I looked at 41 pages of men who are possible candidates for my age group and yet there are only 5 or 6 "mature" men posting here? I want to know WHY they're not posting! Most of them are most likely retired and able to post. Are they intimidated in any way? Do they not like the topics? (THAT could be fixed if they'd post their OWN topics.) Are they lazy? Are they REALLY not interested in meeting someone?
Okay...I'm curious and hope to get a few responses. I just don't get it!
well Sandals maybe they are intimidated or maybe they just don't have anything to say,or maybe what they do have to say they might think nobady would be interested in hearing it...either way they should at least check out the potings that are here they might find something or someone that may appeal to them
I've seen many people, male and female, that sit on the sidelines, read, but don't feel comfortable messaging or commenting. I try to get everyone involved. You need to have your face out in view, your personalitiy, your thoughts, your opinions, so eveyone has a chance to get to know one another. So for those of you reading, get interactive. Peace
SandalsOPWinston-Salem, North Carolina USA545 posts
hot-T....I think you're right! They're "intimidated" in some way.
Oh well...I'm off to make breakfast, get showered, dressed, and do a for things around the house. I'll check back later to see if ANYONE has posted an answer to this mystifying question!
SandalsOPWinston-Salem, North Carolina USA545 posts
Ship...thank you for posting! You might be right about these sites being geared to those in their 20's, 30's and 40's. Anyone over 50 seems to get lost in the shuffle.
I DO think you have to "think" young to keep up with most of the topics! Maybe THAT'S why there's only a few of us mature posters here.
Again, thanks for your input. Have a great day. Okay..I'm NOW going to get my butt in gear!
also, I think that maybe alot of people sign up, thinking this is a good thing, then decide it's not what they are looking for. But they don't take the time to remove thrmsrlves...they just move on
SandalsOPWinston-Salem, North Carolina USA545 posts
BND and CIN...I didn't see your posts prior to Ships, but thanks for posting!
At least I'm getting some insight to my question. Lots of younger men prefer older women and there's nothing wrong with it. Personally, I cannot imagine myself involved with anyone who's young enough to be my son! Just plain can't do it! (don't throw tomatoes at me!! )
well you know if a person puts themselves out there in a post they won't get lost in the shuffle irregardless of their age...and truthfully its not that the sites are geared to those in their 20's,30's,and 40's its just hthat they are more willing and more confident in putting themselves out there....if you want to be known and heard you need to speak up and if you are afraid of getting lost in the shuffle than HOLLER and don't let yourself be lost
SandalsOPWinston-Salem, North Carolina USA545 posts
You're right! There IS a lot to be said for the young blood in here but I'd rather date someone who knows who the he// Perry Como is!! AND......enjoys someone like Jon Bon_Jovi like "I" do!
you are so right there ....there have been so young bloods that I have talked to that don't know certain musicians that I know and there are so tv shows they haven't heard of and there are some says that they have no idea what they mean and I will get who's that or when was that show on or what does that mean....if I could find one my age that is has the energy of the young bloods and aren't couch potaoes then life would be grand.....
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Okay...I'm curious and hope to get a few responses. I just don't get it!