"I have often thought that we have much to learn from infants. They have not yet adapted to the concept of linear time with a past, present and future. They relate only to the immediate present, to right 'now'. It is my hunch that they do not see the world as fragmented. They feel that they are joined to everything in the world as part of a whole. To me, they represent true innocence. Love, wisdom and forgiveness.
As we become older, we tend to accept the adult values which emphasize preojecting past learning into the present and anticipated future. It is difficult for most of us to have even the slightest question about the validity of our past-present-future concepts. We believe that the past will continue to repeat itself in the present and future without the possibility of change. Consequently, we believe we are living in a fearful world where, sooner or later, there will be suffering, frustrations, conflict, depression and illness.
When we hold on to, invest in and become attached to our guilty experiences and grievances from the past, we are tempted to predict a similar future. The future and the past then become one. We feel vulnerable when we believe that the fearful past is real and forget that our only reality is Love, and that Love exists this instant. Feeling vulnerable, we expect that the past will repeat itself. We see what we expect, and we expect we both invite and seek. Past guilt and fears are thereby contunually recycled.
One way of letting go of our "archeological garbage" is to recognize that holding on to it does not bring us to what we want. When we see no value in recycling it we remove the blocks to our being free to forgive and Love completely now. Only in this way can we be truly happy.
"This instant is the only time there is" can become an eternity. The future becomes an extention of a peaceful present that never ceases."
That was so lovely to read....but i really must read it again later.... You always do this to me....get my little brain doing overtime...its just not fair Q........
Oddly (or maybe not so oddly, as I've posted and posted and posted MB lyrics.) this reminds me of a Moody Blues song...
Another Morning Ray Thomas
Balloons flying Children sighing What a day to go kite flying Breeze is cool Away from school Cowboys fighting out a duel Time seems to stand quite still In a child's world, it always will
Fish is biting So exciting Lunchtime sounds so inviting Angler Bill He gets a thrill Sitting, watching bobbing quill Time seems to stand quite still In a child's world, it always will
Yesterday's dreams Are tomorrow's sighs Watch children playing They seem so wise
Mary Green Today is a queen One thousand dollies are a dream In cotton frocks and golden locks Her palace is an orange box
Time seems to stand quite still In a child's world, it always will
Frame of Reference, and Context...without these two things, we would all still think like children...
As the years pile on, our frame of reference is often distorted. As the posted article suggests, we begin to interpret current events from the frame of reference of ourselves in the past...when the "context" is completely unrelated.
There was a clinical psychology experiment I read about in college regarding the origins of superstition. It involved pigeons pecking on a set of buttons to get food. There were five buttons, but only one would dispense food. Scientists noted that certain birds would associate what they were doing at the time, say peck, spin in a circle, peck...get food...so they started spinning in a circle every time they pecked, associating this unrelated behavior with the actual dispensation of food...again, past context is not current context, and we need to constantly update our frame of reference to prevent irrational perceptions of reality from forming...
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pp 105-106
"I have often thought that we have much to learn from infants. They have not yet adapted to the concept of linear time with a past, present and future. They relate only to the immediate present, to right 'now'. It is my hunch that they do not see the world as fragmented. They feel that they are joined to everything in the world as part of a whole. To me, they represent true innocence. Love, wisdom and forgiveness.
As we become older, we tend to accept the adult values which emphasize preojecting past learning into the present and anticipated future. It is difficult for most of us to have even the slightest question about the validity of our past-present-future concepts. We believe that the past will continue to repeat itself in the present and future without the possibility of change. Consequently, we believe we are living in a fearful world where, sooner or later, there will be suffering, frustrations, conflict, depression and illness.
When we hold on to, invest in and become attached to our guilty experiences and grievances from the past, we are tempted to predict a similar future. The future and the past then become one. We feel vulnerable when we believe that the fearful past is real and forget that our only reality is Love, and that Love exists this instant. Feeling vulnerable, we expect that the past will repeat itself. We see what we expect, and we expect we both invite and seek. Past guilt and fears are thereby contunually recycled.
One way of letting go of our "archeological garbage" is to recognize that holding on to it does not bring us to what we want. When we see no value in recycling it we remove the blocks to our being free to forgive and Love completely now. Only in this way can we be truly happy.
"This instant is the only time there is" can become an eternity. The future becomes an extention of a peaceful present that never ceases."