Diamonds are forever – looks are not!! I don’t believe people expect that a ‘pretty person’ will be ‘pretty’ forever.. get real!! Looks are not everything!
Don't know what to think. Women have always told me that I'm not too hard to look at but I am alone more times than not. So there must be something else wrong with me.
The older i get, the more i realise that looks are not the most important part of a person. There has to be some physical attraction but what's inside is more important. You could miss out on something very special if you don't get to know the other person.
For me personaly I will not lie to you. Looks somewhat matter. I am not expecting a god of a man or a muscled man or a model. But I have to definatly be physicaly attracted to the guy and there has to be a chemistry otherwise it will not work out in my end.
Yes personality and qualities are very important and I find that those also help to bring out the outer beauty in someone as well.
I have learned from the experience of dating that its not so bad to be picky now. At least I find anyway.
I'll admit, at first glance I'll go by looks but honestly if something else doesn't 'capture' me after the initial glance the person just gets shoved into the 'looker but not a keeper' category. They can redeem themselves later on, if/when they have something to say that strikes a cord in me but until then .... looks fade.
Women go for men who reach out to them, then do not scare them, then react with humour to tense situations (using charm?) then take them out places not necessarily costing money, maybe walking or something like that, and then tenderness later.
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