its_just_me Forum Posts (24)

RE: whats your favorite soda?

I'd have to say Coke Zero or Diet Coke. Lemon and Lime but only if they're fresh and not 'essences of' added to the soft drink.

RE: Take the last word of the sentence and start a new sentence.

Say what you mean.

RE: What if.....

Then I guess I'd have it :) LOL

Where would I have it??? Probably somewhere in the country - where you get all 4 seasons but not too close to a big city yet not so far away and not in a town - I seem to really like my space LOL

What is your fave kinda chocolate?

RE: When a person is drunk

OMG Im not even going to go there re: possum eating a sweet tater!

RE: I need your advice- What would you buy a new boyfriend for Christmas?

Depends on how intimate you are in getting to know them with their mannerisms, likes and dislikes.

Its only the end of Oct now and you have about 2 months to find something and a lot can happen in 2 months!

If its the relationship is going light - get a general gift. Coffee mug with a gift card for a popular coffee place/chain. A book by his fave author. Calendar themed by one of his interests etc. If you keep the budget average - you'll find something not too extravagant. Thats what I have found in the past.

RE: When a person is drunk

Depends on 'how' drunk the person is.

I know I've been able to lead on them boys at the bar and others I have sooo set them straight But 99.9% of the time I shoot straight from the hip so alcohol really doesn't 'enable' me to tell any MORE of the truth then I already do. Hope that made sense.

Usually when drunk enough, nothing BUT the truth comes out. Hard, fast and very uncensored.

RE: how to behave with inactive man?

Have you told him that he's being 'inactive' and how it makes you feel? Has either of you tried to do anything to rectify this situation?

RE: Ladies...what do you do....

I'd get mad and then slowly suck it up and deal with it and start all over again....there had to have been a reason why this person was in your life....I'd be stuck trying to figure that out too!

RE: What if.....

The first thing I'd buy the services of a interior decorator and update my 80s decorated home!

Would you stop a pushy youth scrambling over an elderly person - both trying to get through the door at the same time? Or let them through and hold the door open for the elderly? (I know its supposed to be ONE question and it is, just a two parter! LOL)

RE: Counting to ten.....well maybe 20

HAHAHA oh wow....this is probably why my parents had installed a slide latch lock at the TOP of the door - so you had to be tall or 'grown up' to be able to lock the bathroom door.

Hope you get it fixed soon :)

RE: Best USA Outdoor adventure

Hahahaha!

Chase tornados! ;)

RE: how can you get through to some you like, and you know they like you, but push you aside.

How can you get through to her?

Lets see....just be YOU and just be there. When the time is right she will 'notice' you and your having been 'just there'. But its up to you if you wish to do this? Do you have the emotional strength and patience within yourself?

As for you leaving - why dont you just ask her?

RE: is it really BETTER?

I think it is - it teaches you things about yourself, strengths you never thought you had in you to help you cope with the loss. It also shows you clearly what you DO NOT WANT in your next mate ;)

RE: Anyone else or just me...

The only time I'm a snoot is when there's WHINE involved - who wants to hear that non stop? Of course I'm going to snub you if you dont stop after a few requests!

I do love red wine but how often do I drink it? 4 glasses/yr??

RE: It had to happen

Hooray for snow!!!

Time to practice nekkid snow angels again!

RE: special things for first date??

HAHAHAHAHA!

RE: Harmony’s System

Regardless of the venue (or dating site in this case) I think its what you make of it. If you venture into any dating site expecting to find the 'one' then you're only fooling yourself.

RE: Describe your perfect Sunday morning?

Sleeping in, waking up to a clean, organized and tidy house, all possible chores done and all the bills paid! Followed by some freshly brewed coffee while lookin out the window, flipping channels on tv or skimming the headlines of the paper. Jumping back into bed for another hour or so (with or w/o a snuggle partner) and then waking up to a simply delicious home cooked breakfast :)

Hey now - a girl can dream can't she?

RE: special things for first date??

How about showering?

Clean out the car, charge the cell phone 'just in case' and always have cash in the wallet 'just in case' LOL Gum and perfume are optional.

RE: Ever been so attracted to someone that it scared you?

Ever been so attracted to someone that it scared you?

Uh - yep! And its very hard after being hurt so many times to just let that person "in".

RE: What makes u nervous on your first meeting or date?

What makes me nervous? Besides the obvious - how will the chemistry be live in person, do we pass the physical inspection but the biggest thing that gets me everytime - WHERE TO MEET!?

RE: Let's have a picnic

HRM....take this as y'all wish:

SPF and Wet Wipes! LOL

RE: Getting back on the horse!

Depends on the break up. The relationship may have ended way prior to the break up and the break up is just a confirmation. Sometimes the break up is the first news of anything being wrong. Judge each break up accordingly but its ultimately up to you when you decide you're ready to get back out there.

RE: Do women still really go for just looks or do they look for other qualities when looking for a guy?

I'll admit, at first glance I'll go by looks but honestly if something else doesn't 'capture' me after the initial glance the person just gets shoved into the 'looker but not a keeper' category. They can redeem themselves later on, if/when they have something to say that strikes a cord in me but until then .... looks fade.