evie_girl_flOPFayetteville, North Carolina USA967 posts
Now you understanding the question sir!!
What i been trying to say all along is that when we FEEL lonely , we tend to think with our heads only with our privates and that gets us in deep trouble!!
I agree with Bajun. It can be just as lonely being in a relationship, as well as being single.
Im a person who likes my own company...and i dont feel a driving urge to just be with somebody for the sake of it. Of course its fantastic to have some love in your life...somebody to share special times with.....but i can do that with my friends.... The only thing missing would be the intimacy......i think that a lot of us crave that more than anything.
When I start feeling lonely I try to find a way to take my mind off of it. I do miss having someone to talk to right before I go to sleep. I miss waking up and having a hot cup of tea sitting on the bed side table waiting for me, or a nice foot rub at the end of a long day. I miss alot of the things I had in a relationship, but I'd rather miss them then get into a bad relationship just because I'm feeling lonely.
Surround yourself with friends and interests....keep busy....but not so busy to the point where you have no free time to find what it is youre looking for.....maybe it will come to us....we never know do we...??...
We can do negative things regardless......whether lonely or not i think...
evie_girl_flOPFayetteville, North Carolina USA967 posts
True we do negative things wether lonely or night, however we are more blind when we are lonely no? becasue we want intimacy , i think we make mistakes when it come to making right decisions...
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