Does distance matters?? (30)
Sounds like my ex... Oh well her loss..
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I don't know, if I had a girl who loves me I wouldn't be unfaithful...
(now I hear 1000 guys shouting "liar!!!")
(now I hear 1000 guys shouting "liar!!!")
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We have two issues here: long distance relationships and men’s unfaithfulness.
Long distance relationships: I know love conquers all so long distance relationship can be possible; of course, the warm feeling of having somebody next to you in bed is replaced by a huge pillow and it’s not the same.
Men’s unfaithfulness: men (in my opinion) tend to be easily aroused by any passing beautiful girl whereas a woman isn’t. A woman needs more than just to look at somebody to get that tingle. So I guess that explains it all. That doesn’t mean they are unfaithful every time they see somebody that pleases their lower half, they have no control over it… I’ll stop here or I’ll get lynched!
Long distance relationships: I know love conquers all so long distance relationship can be possible; of course, the warm feeling of having somebody next to you in bed is replaced by a huge pillow and it’s not the same.
Men’s unfaithfulness: men (in my opinion) tend to be easily aroused by any passing beautiful girl whereas a woman isn’t. A woman needs more than just to look at somebody to get that tingle. So I guess that explains it all. That doesn’t mean they are unfaithful every time they see somebody that pleases their lower half, they have no control over it… I’ll stop here or I’ll get lynched!
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Distance can be a killer, to say the least! 
There are alot of things to consider when it comes to a LD relationship...finances being one of them, and time for travel. Sooner or later one must make a move to the other one, I believe. If one does not have the means to travel back and forth, it can create much frustration. 
It also needs to be taken into account, who travels to whom and how often. Who can travel the easiest, especially where single parenting and children are involved. Long distance relationships are not easy, but they are do-able. Trust must also be a major factor, as well as communication. 
As far as faithfulness, it is my opinion, that to be faithful or not to be faithful is a Choice, men and/or women, make for themselves. Self control helps make the right choice.
Not all men, or women, are unfaithful.
There are alot of things to consider when it comes to a LD relationship...finances being one of them, and time for travel. Sooner or later one must make a move to the other one, I believe. If one does not have the means to travel back and forth, it can create much frustration. It also needs to be taken into account, who travels to whom and how often. Who can travel the easiest, especially where single parenting and children are involved. Long distance relationships are not easy, but they are do-able. Trust must also be a major factor, as well as communication. As far as faithfulness, it is my opinion, that to be faithful or not to be faithful is a Choice, men and/or women, make for themselves. Self control helps make the right choice.
Not all men, or women, are unfaithful.
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Distance is only a matter of time.....
If you have the time.....
no probs.......
If you have the time.....
no probs.......
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well said hzchild and totally agree------ This thread is Archived ------
If it is really love I would move no matter the distance to be with that person.
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This is so very true....
I was just talking to someone abput this last night
I see people saying that they "love" each other. I myself can not "love" someone unless I am with them, totally. Sure, I can find common interests, common likes, dislikes and wants. desires but how do you fall in love with someone when you are not with them? I guess I have to have the physical as well as the mental stimulation to get that "feeling". Am I so different from many people?.....I just wonder since I see alot of people here, falling in love over the internet.
And please, don't take this as a direct to anyone! this is just how I feel and it's a sincere question.
I can see how it would be easy to get that warm fuzzy feeling inside when you like someone and you anticipate talking to them again and you get excited just thinking about it. But love? Hmmm,
Maybe it is possible. long distance
I was just talking to someone abput this last night
I see people saying that they "love" each other. I myself can not "love" someone unless I am with them, totally. Sure, I can find common interests, common likes, dislikes and wants. desires but how do you fall in love with someone when you are not with them? I guess I have to have the physical as well as the mental stimulation to get that "feeling". Am I so different from many people?.....I just wonder since I see alot of people here, falling in love over the internet.
And please, don't take this as a direct to anyone!
this is just how I feel and it's a sincere question. I can see how it would be easy to get that warm fuzzy feeling inside when you like someone and you anticipate talking to them again and you get excited just thinking about it. But love? Hmmm,
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Rephrase: I have had 3 men in my life and "ALL" of them were unfaithful!
To me thats "MOST MEN"