My neice is pregnant ( Archived) (17)

Aug 25, 2007 5:04 PM CST My neice is pregnant
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
If ppl remember she came to me a few weeks ago asking for money to get her pills, well she got the money from her parents instead of me, a lot of dissension ensued on that post and at this point is moot, since she is 2 months pregnant with her boyfriends baby.

Seems now that her boyfriend has no interest in doing the right thing by her since he can't support his 5 year old daughter with his ex-wife.

She's only 19 now and I think will mess up here life.
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Aug 25, 2007 5:08 PM CST My neice is pregnant
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
why thay dont use kondoms? i cant understand that.Its not only pregnancy,thats smallest problem.She willblues
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Aug 25, 2007 5:11 PM CST My neice is pregnant
Teddybear1981
Teddybear1981Teddybear1981Merrill, Wisconsin USA14 Threads 171 Posts
Kids having kidsfrustrated
What the heck is happening to this world?

I don't mean to offend anyone with this post but it just upsets me seeing or hearing these young kids having kids. A good percentage are only hurting themselves from doing that.
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Aug 25, 2007 5:14 PM CST My neice is pregnant
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
She's 19 and technically an adult...But I don't think she still lives at home and has her parents buy her vehicles...However she may not be a responsible 19!


conversing conversing
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Aug 25, 2007 5:23 PM CST My neice is pregnant
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Don't feel bad...My daughter is 19 and due in November. Her boyfriend is a couple years older and he already has a two or three year old child. For some reason they both decided to do this and now she is finally starting to realize how tough it is going to be.

I welcome my g-baby to the world and wish the best for them even though I have my concerns about them staying together in the long run. I do think that the father will try to stay involved in his childs life though because he does with the child he has now.
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Aug 25, 2007 5:23 PM CST My neice is pregnant
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
you are rightmoping
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Aug 25, 2007 5:25 PM CST My neice is pregnant
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
I would never look down on her, I love her with all my heart, but I am disappointed in her as she is a smart young lady.
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Aug 25, 2007 5:28 PM CST My neice is pregnant
Mummy
MummyMummyDrogheda, Louth Ireland177 Threads 1 Polls 2,380 Posts
she will always be a smart young lady, and if anything, this will make her stronger...

do me a favour and please don't tell her that you're disappointed in her....a younger girl dealing with a pregnancy, its not easy. She can easily get depressed....and start feeling suicidal if she thinks everyone is getting at her....i've been there hun.....i know!....
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Aug 25, 2007 5:31 PM CST My neice is pregnant
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Thx Mummy thumbs up
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Aug 25, 2007 5:44 PM CST My neice is pregnant
minimoo
minimoominimooDublin, Ireland123 Threads 1,537 Posts
Hey DK!!

Listen...these things happen...its not the end of the world..once the baby is loved and she gets all the support she needs..

She will not mess up her life, being a young mother takes guts and a lot of hard work. It will make her a strong young woman. And she is still young, there is still plenty of time when the baby is older to do things with her life.

I know its upsetting becuase u want what is best for her, but jus be thankful that she is still around and healthy..and u'll have a lovely bundle of joy in your family!!

hug
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Aug 25, 2007 5:49 PM CST My neice is pregnant
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Our family will never turn away from her and will do all they can to help, thats just the way we are.
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Aug 25, 2007 5:50 PM CST My neice is pregnant
minimoo
minimoominimooDublin, Ireland123 Threads 1,537 Posts
then she is very lucky to have u all!! grin
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Aug 25, 2007 5:53 PM CST My neice is pregnant
Mummy
MummyMummyDrogheda, Louth Ireland177 Threads 1 Polls 2,380 Posts
darlin, i'm so thrilled to hear that...you actually brought a tear to my eyes tonight, cause it brought it all back to me....throughout my pregnancy, my family didn't want anything to do with me, but as soon as the baby was born, they seemed to turn the other cheek...

in my own mind i forgave them, but i'll never forget about how they treated me.

Wish you all the best of luck...

x

Niamh
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Aug 25, 2007 5:54 PM CST My neice is pregnant
minimoo
minimoominimooDublin, Ireland123 Threads 1,537 Posts
hug hug hug
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Aug 25, 2007 5:59 PM CST My neice is pregnant
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
All we can do is hope for the best.

I was young parent and I have no regret and nor was it a mistake,however mistakes where made,and for some,how quickly we grow up.
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Aug 25, 2007 6:16 PM CST My neice is pregnant
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
When she told me the other night I was very angry at her but didn't let her know that so I came back online to talk to the one person I know who could calm me down (thx My sweet ).

blushing wink
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Aug 25, 2007 7:22 PM CST My neice is pregnant
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
Mistakes happen and we are all human. Try to do your best not to make her feel worse than she probably already does. What she needs more than anything is Love from her family. And to feel that she is not alone in all this. It is one thing for others to be disappointed in you, but an entirely different thing for one to be disappointed in themselves. wink
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