If ppl remember she came to me a few weeks ago asking for money to get her pills, well she got the money from her parents instead of me, a lot of dissension ensued on that post and at this point is moot, since she is 2 months pregnant with her boyfriends baby.
Seems now that her boyfriend has no interest in doing the right thing by her since he can't support his 5 year old daughter with his ex-wife.
She's only 19 now and I think will mess up here life.
Kids having kids What the heck is happening to this world?
I don't mean to offend anyone with this post but it just upsets me seeing or hearing these young kids having kids. A good percentage are only hurting themselves from doing that.
She's 19 and technically an adult...But I don't think she still lives at home and has her parents buy her vehicles...However she may not be a responsible 19!
Don't feel bad...My daughter is 19 and due in November. Her boyfriend is a couple years older and he already has a two or three year old child. For some reason they both decided to do this and now she is finally starting to realize how tough it is going to be.
I welcome my g-baby to the world and wish the best for them even though I have my concerns about them staying together in the long run. I do think that the father will try to stay involved in his childs life though because he does with the child he has now.
she will always be a smart young lady, and if anything, this will make her stronger...
do me a favour and please don't tell her that you're disappointed in her....a younger girl dealing with a pregnancy, its not easy. She can easily get depressed....and start feeling suicidal if she thinks everyone is getting at her....i've been there hun.....i know!....
Listen...these things happen...its not the end of the world..once the baby is loved and she gets all the support she needs..
She will not mess up her life, being a young mother takes guts and a lot of hard work. It will make her a strong young woman. And she is still young, there is still plenty of time when the baby is older to do things with her life.
I know its upsetting becuase u want what is best for her, but jus be thankful that she is still around and healthy..and u'll have a lovely bundle of joy in your family!!
darlin, i'm so thrilled to hear that...you actually brought a tear to my eyes tonight, cause it brought it all back to me....throughout my pregnancy, my family didn't want anything to do with me, but as soon as the baby was born, they seemed to turn the other cheek...
in my own mind i forgave them, but i'll never forget about how they treated me.
When she told me the other night I was very angry at her but didn't let her know that so I came back online to talk to the one person I know who could calm me down (thx My sweet ).
HzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA2,779 posts
Mistakes happen and we are all human. Try to do your best not to make her feel worse than she probably already does. What she needs more than anything is Love from her family. And to feel that she is not alone in all this. It is one thing for others to be disappointed in you, but an entirely different thing for one to be disappointed in themselves.
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Seems now that her boyfriend has no interest in doing the right thing by her since he can't support his 5 year old daughter with his ex-wife.
She's only 19 now and I think will mess up here life.