Most of the guys who don't put up pictures, and say that they're aren't bad looking, just don't seem to attract me when they eventually put a picture in the mail or whatever!...
and another thing that sends alarm bells ringing is "i've tried to put a picture up but it won't attach, or i can't find a picture of me to put up on the mail or profile"
Initial looks are important in animal attraction.(for me anyhow)...and i know i know...its personality that wins through....
Every word you said is very true Mumsie.....Physical attraction and chemistry are of the utmost.....goes without saying.....
If someone has a great personality but you are not physically attracted to them then there is nothing going down no matter what you try.....
The truth of the matter is and being honest here is that physically and visually there has to be a huge connection other wise forget it....
Guys who dont put up pic's.....well that speak's for it'self......they are not confident enough to show what they look like and that's the real facts of it....
All there feeble excuses are complete and utter bull.......
Lots are definately married...have neck's like Giraffe's and hide behind the screen......but even so I can imagine what they might look like......just think if there wife is rejecting....pray tell me why might that be.....
Going to a wedding on Thursday in Straffan church and reception in Johnstown......bought a new dress.....cardi....shoes......bag......and the same all over again for my youngest......soooooooooo looking forward to it.....
Then a barbie at the couple's house on Friday and off to Wexford for Sat and Sun......weather forcast projection to be fab for the rest of this week and next....maybe we will get out Indian summer after all....
How is you keeping sweetie.....how's the foot.....did you get the cast off yet......bet it's getting itchy...... bad am I.......
Well my pic is up and people know what I look like and by chatting to me they can get to know the real me. If they are not interested because of my pic. I move on. Its their loss and my gain.
I know real good looking guys can be big dork's.......but hey they have to have something easy on the eye to look at......other wise it's a brown paper bag job all the time....and one for you in case his fall's off.....
The reality is.......so many are fakes on this site and others......even if some have a photo up it's not always them.....when you see them for real.....Oops......
Drama.....everything in life is a drama with some......
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and another thing that sends alarm bells ringing is "i've tried to put a picture up but it won't attach, or i can't find a picture of me to put up on the mail or profile"
Initial looks are important in animal attraction.(for me anyhow)...and i know i know...its personality that wins through....
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