That's a good question, I think the answer to that would be that when inevitably being "interviewed for the job" by the new prospective partner, the number of previous marriages is likely to thro' up a red flag which requires explanation.
Why? Is usually the first question, this implies a lack of trust at the outset, did you mistreat your former wives etc. And is this the reason for being back on the market again?
ltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK1,635 posts
There is no shame in loving and then losing. It is not something that can always be controlled. A positive life experience is what counts and not hurting anyone whilst living.
First time walked away with my computer, my clothes, my kids (and their stuff)...
Then I worked very hard to re-build a life for ourselves with total financial indepence although he paid maintenance for my children...
Second marriage ... shared everything I had worked hard for (he had nothing ... Divorce = give him half (or almost half) of everything ...
How about if it's to some women financial disadvantage when the relationship ends? BTW, commitment has nothing to do with signing on the dotted line ...
A bit less stereotyping would go down well!
NO I DON'T FEEL ASHAMED for having the strentgh to walk away from emotionally distressing marriages ...
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Much to some men's financial disadvantage (in particular) when the relationship ended.