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Sep 9, 2007 4:08 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
sprog
sprogsprogBournemouth, UK2 Threads 43 Posts
Take the view that you've always been prepared to show commitment, offer marriage, and sign on the dotted line.

Much to some men's financial disadvantage (in particular) when the relationship ended.
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Sep 9, 2007 4:09 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
Tiffanie
TiffanieTiffanieNijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands40 Threads 1,324 Posts
First question, why should you feel ashamed if you've been married once or twice?
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Sep 9, 2007 4:12 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
beejay
beejaybeejaySt. Truiden, Limburg Belgium50 Threads 1,413 Posts
I been married four times

but then

you don't keep a car for life do you

laugh
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Sep 9, 2007 4:13 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
Tiffanie
TiffanieTiffanieNijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands40 Threads 1,324 Posts
laugh laugh laugh
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Sep 9, 2007 4:21 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
sprog
sprogsprogBournemouth, UK2 Threads 43 Posts
That's a good question, I think the answer to that would be that when inevitably being "interviewed for the job" by the new prospective partner, the number of previous marriages is likely to thro' up a red flag which requires explanation.

Why? Is usually the first question, this implies a lack of trust at the outset, did you mistreat your former wives etc. And is this the reason for being back on the market again?
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Sep 9, 2007 4:23 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
sprog
sprogsprogBournemouth, UK2 Threads 43 Posts
Not without changing the oil at regular intervals.....grin
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Sep 9, 2007 4:28 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK7 Threads 1,635 Posts
There is no shame in loving and then losing. It is not something that can always be controlled. A positive life experience is what counts and not hurting anyone whilst living.

hug hug
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Sep 9, 2007 4:43 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
sprog
sprogsprogBournemouth, UK2 Threads 43 Posts
Got to be the best answer so far......hug handshake
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Sep 9, 2007 4:59 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
sprog
sprogsprogBournemouth, UK2 Threads 43 Posts
Oh!.....and can I be a little fan please?.....wine
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Sep 9, 2007 5:26 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK7 Threads 1,635 Posts
sure ...thought u were already..
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Sep 9, 2007 5:49 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
I've been married four times too head banger

Wanna race to see which one of us gets marreid next??? rolling on the floor laughing



Varoom, varoom, beep, beep!!! peace
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Sep 9, 2007 5:52 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
beejay
beejaybeejaySt. Truiden, Limburg Belgium50 Threads 1,413 Posts
Marry me

it'll always be a drawn game

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 9, 2007 6:05 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
sprog
sprogsprogBournemouth, UK2 Threads 43 Posts
Didnt want to be presumptous though....blushing
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Sep 9, 2007 6:07 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
sprog
sprogsprogBournemouth, UK2 Threads 43 Posts
Wanna fully qualified referee?.......wink
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Sep 9, 2007 6:31 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
Thanks, but no thanks rolling on the floor laughing

I like the idea of the new car though. I think I'll go shopping for one grin



Back to the thread topic....

Ashamed of trying marriage????

Good grief!!!

All four guys were a real experience and none of them lost money on the deal. laugh
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Sep 9, 2007 6:49 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
2 divorces here!

First time walked away with my computer, my clothes, my kids (and their stuff)...

Then I worked very hard to re-build a life for ourselves with total financial indepence although he paid maintenance for my children...

Second marriage ... shared everything I had worked hard for (he had nothing ... Divorce = give him half (or almost half) of everything ...

How about if it's to some women financial disadvantage when the relationship ends? BTW, commitment has nothing to do with signing on the dotted line ...

A bit less stereotyping would go down well!

NO I DON'T FEEL ASHAMED for having the strentgh to walk away from emotionally distressing marriages ...

A little wiser now though I'd like to think ...
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Sep 9, 2007 6:51 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
sprog
sprogsprogBournemouth, UK2 Threads 43 Posts
"All four guys were a real experience and none of them lost money on the deal."


Forget the proposal above then, marry me!...You'll set up for life.... rolling on the floor laughing wink
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Sep 9, 2007 7:00 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

I think we should just have big parties, cake, champagne and forget the marriage ceremony part! wine



Just imagine, without the institution of marriage, there would never be another divorce!!!angel
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Sep 9, 2007 7:01 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
sprog
sprogsprogBournemouth, UK2 Threads 43 Posts
Yep...agreed...the " Matrimonial Causes Act 1989" has now become a two way thing...thumbs up
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Sep 9, 2007 7:03 AM CST If you have been married more than once or twice, do feel feel ashamed? Or do you:-
beejay
beejaybeejaySt. Truiden, Limburg Belgium50 Threads 1,413 Posts
I'll second that

No alimony therefore more money to party

dancing dancing
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