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Sep 20, 2007 3:51 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
because we are so different"... a guy told me this.

What do you when someone tells you this?Please be sincere, tell us about your experience and not what is politicly correct.What's the tendency?

You wanna make him/her fall in love with you because you wanna be loved?Or you accept you both are different and forget about the attraction you have for him/her?








confused
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Sep 20, 2007 3:53 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
Wizzie1967
Wizzie1967Wizzie1967Ennis, Clare Ireland13 Threads 757 Posts
han han...
someone has to love you for what you are...
scold
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Sep 20, 2007 3:57 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
b_n_d
b_n_db_n_dGlasgow, USA60 Threads 3,675 Posts
You can't make someone fall in love with you. If that were possible these sites wouldn't exist. Maybe he's paly it off cause he really doesn't want a realtionship.dunno Opposites attract, no doubt on that. However, I have found, you need some common ground, some similar interests. I've also found that being older, you may need or want more similarities in your partner. I say let it flow, time will tell.thumbs up
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Sep 20, 2007 3:58 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
Thats so true wizzie.....but its what your heart is telling you as I think you do know the answers....If you just want to be loved, you must love yourself first and then the rest falls into place...why settle for 2nd best because of your fear of being alone, You are a good person, take time out to think what is best for you.....hug hug
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Sep 20, 2007 3:59 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
Icekrystal24
Icekrystal24Icekrystal24Glasgow, USA74 Threads 1,690 Posts
How boring would this world be if we were all the same.................
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Sep 20, 2007 4:00 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
yeah...

now you tell me: ever dated a girl because you loved the way she loved you?
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Sep 20, 2007 4:01 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
cantbetamed71
cantbetamed71cantbetamed71St. Louis, USA70 Threads 901 Posts
It would depend on what context he was saying you are different. If it is subtle differences then that is OK, but if it is something profound then that would be an issue. Profound differences are something that the two people would need to discuss in depth and see if they could work past those differences. Some differences are not able to be overcome such as a partner doesn't want to marry and you do, doesn't want children you do...etc, etc.

You can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you because everyone has free will. You can do things to "entice" someone and make yourself look more appealing, but if you are only doing this to impress the other person and it's not who you truly are then you are lying to both yourself and your partner, deception never works.
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Sep 20, 2007 4:05 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Very nice words bnd!wave

I believe you are right.
Actually we are different. And we need similarities when time passes.I feel he is different, yes, and he is right wanting to pull out actually.
Thanks bnd!thumbs up

cheers
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Sep 20, 2007 4:07 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
the difference is like...he was at the G8 throwing stones and i could be part of the G8rolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Sep 20, 2007 4:09 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
nuala, that wasn't for me but...i love myself so much!

laugh

Not fear of being alone...just missing nice cuddles...love smitten love
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Sep 20, 2007 4:11 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
b_n_d
b_n_db_n_dGlasgow, USA60 Threads 3,675 Posts
I didn't say he was right to pull out. I think any chance is worth a chance.
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Sep 20, 2007 4:15 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
Wizzie1967
Wizzie1967Wizzie1967Ennis, Clare Ireland13 Threads 757 Posts
Yes and know, what would be her love without mine??
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Sep 20, 2007 4:19 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing

That's a typical heart breaker statement!tongue
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Sep 20, 2007 4:19 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
okwave
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Sep 20, 2007 4:25 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
Wizzie1967
Wizzie1967Wizzie1967Ennis, Clare Ireland13 Threads 757 Posts
Is it????
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Sep 20, 2007 4:28 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
nah, just kiddingblushing

hug kiss
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Sep 20, 2007 4:31 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
Wizzie1967
Wizzie1967Wizzie1967Ennis, Clare Ireland13 Threads 757 Posts
Goodblushing
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Sep 21, 2007 4:28 PM CST "i'm scared to fall in love
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Aren't we all ?
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