Communication ( Archived) (74)

Communication is the key to any relationship, that and trust.

It's starts early on and is the basis for everything.

Starting out as little comments on forums or blogs. Moves to private E-mails. Here we find out early on if the other person has what it takes.

Whether it's potentila serious relationship, or just a poissible friend.

Do they read your e-mail and not answer, or not answer for days? Most of us have experienced this. Very upsetting once you've built some type of repore with another. Do we get upset? Hell yes we do. How do we react? Do we send more E-mails? I say no, I've been there, I've done it, It just adds to your frustration. If the person can't communicate at this early stage, they really aren't worth your time. The lack of consideration by not communicating properly will only lead to further lack of consideration. Anyone else feel the same?

Yes, I feel the same.

Yes I have to agree!!!!!!!!!

K...I got a flower saying that the gentleman liked my profile, and he

wanted me to tell him more..... wtf?

Am I too picky about this? C'mon...write an email, introduce yourself,

bore me with a few pointers about yourself, and see if you catch my

eye.

What may be boring to you, may just fascinate me...

Anyway, I flowered him back and told him thanks for the comp. and

complimented his pic...then he emailed me and thanked me for the

comp... and people wonder why they are walking around

alone.....

I couldn't tell you. I don't know how to communicate.

You coulda done at least 10 more flowers of that...Come on you give up too easy!!!!!!!!!!

Imagine how many of those intellectual communications that man has going on.

Sometimes you have to take what you get at first and make the advancement. Maybe he's really shy or doesn't know how to begin. If you thought his profile was nice and his pic was nice, write him a longer email and see how he responds. This is just my opinion, but sometimes you can't wait for lightening bolts.......you have to make the move yourself.