From friends to more??! ( Archived) (28)

Sep 21, 2007 7:51 AM CST From friends to more??!
gporg
gporggporgLija, Majjistral Malta3 Threads 45 Posts
Let us say, you have been friends with a gal for a long time.

The friendship borders on having some pretty open flirtations (including friendly touching and hugging), sharing of lots of personal thoughts including love life details and we also have a great deal of same mentality and life outlook. We click on many levels, she is great company and a laugh.

I like her alot and wish to break this friendship barrier for more, but she seems to shy/back away, when making next-step offers, so I back off.

Its pretty confusing as her signals are pretty mixed and she manages to tie me in knots emotionally. Am sure she likes my personality and enjoys herself with me, but ...

Any ideas or anyone in this situation before?
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Sep 21, 2007 7:55 AM CST From friends to more??!
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
applause hi hinni ....mmmm difficult one but id just stay cool ..like you are now let her make the first move .....but kinda say how u feel to her me thinks cause she might be feeling the same way !! hope that hasnt totally confused ya babe ......good luck anway if its mean to be it will be wave xxbabsiecheers
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Sep 21, 2007 7:57 AM CST From friends to more??!
fterrega
fterregafterregasaarbrücken, Saarland Germany2 Threads 323 Posts
She is just soo,... does not want to loose a good friend man!
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Sep 21, 2007 8:02 AM CST From friends to more??!
gporg
gporggporgLija, Majjistral Malta3 Threads 45 Posts
Thanks blue...!!hug

Maybe I should huh!! We will see

Cheers wine
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Sep 21, 2007 8:06 AM CST From friends to more??!
Icekrystal24
Icekrystal24Icekrystal24Glasgow, USA74 Threads 1,690 Posts
You might try sending her a hand written, romantic greeting card.....with your thoughts written on the inside. This gives her a chance to understand how you feel, without it being a face to face thing. It's just a thought.
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Sep 21, 2007 8:11 AM CST From friends to more??!
gporg
gporggporgLija, Majjistral Malta3 Threads 45 Posts
Yepppp...but a pity :)..., I need someone to untie me ..

laugh
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Sep 21, 2007 8:14 AM CST From friends to more??!
fterrega
fterregafterregasaarbrücken, Saarland Germany2 Threads 323 Posts
Hey man, she is your best friend isnt it? tell her that one of you friends is in such a situation(its actually you) and he wants help and you want to know her opinion on this. Maybe she gets the clue or you'll know what's in her mind..

cheers
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Sep 21, 2007 8:16 AM CST From friends to more??!
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
ummm..

what is friendly touching.....confused

Is it a Belgium thing.....
uh oh
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Sep 21, 2007 8:17 AM CST From friends to more??!
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
wave thats no problem hun ......I gotta feeling she wants you but is just being cool ...have great day xxxkiss
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Sep 21, 2007 8:17 AM CST From friends to more??!
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
wave thats no problem hun ......I gotta feeling she wants you but is just being cool ...have great day xxxkiss
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Sep 21, 2007 8:18 AM CST From friends to more??!
gporg
gporggporgLija, Majjistral Malta3 Threads 45 Posts
Mmmm...let me taste this idea, thanks man!
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Sep 21, 2007 8:20 AM CST From friends to more??!
b_n_d
b_n_db_n_dGlasgow, USA60 Threads 3,675 Posts
Have simply tried to talk to her about this? I mena what is this next step you are speaking of? Are you talking about a committed relationship, of are you trying to get in her pants?
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Sep 21, 2007 8:22 AM CST From friends to more??!
gporg
gporggporgLija, Majjistral Malta3 Threads 45 Posts
Ummmm....we grab each other by the hips briefly...hands touching when making a point during a conversation...getting very close, when we walk or stand next to each other on purpose....get the idea??

Thought it was worldwide practice not just in Belgium devil laugh
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Sep 21, 2007 8:23 AM CST From friends to more??!
b_n_d
b_n_db_n_dGlasgow, USA60 Threads 3,675 Posts
What are these "Next Step offers"?confused dunno
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Sep 21, 2007 8:25 AM CST From friends to more??!
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
thanks for clarification.......

can I come to belgium....

laugh laugh

seriously ...

dont push it.....

go with the flow...

and good luck...wine
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Sep 21, 2007 8:29 AM CST From friends to more??!
gporg
gporggporgLija, Majjistral Malta3 Threads 45 Posts
Yeah... taking it beyond friendship...and going physical...its how we all aim for ..blushing
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Sep 21, 2007 8:30 AM CST From friends to more??!
gporg
gporggporgLija, Majjistral Malta3 Threads 45 Posts
Right onnn!!...banana
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Sep 21, 2007 8:40 AM CST From friends to more??!
fterrega
fterregafterregasaarbrücken, Saarland Germany2 Threads 323 Posts
One more food for thought, do you notice that when flirting occurs the females touch their hair for example, stroke it length wise. The tend to do everthing longitudinally.
And men on the other hand, if they play with their hair, they dont stroke it length wise but actually circle it, I mean curl it.
Female special goes length ways and the male species go the circular ways.
Do you know why?
It has some genetic hard wiring reason for this...

daydream
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Sep 21, 2007 8:42 AM CST From friends to more??!
gporg
gporggporgLija, Majjistral Malta3 Threads 45 Posts
Sure !!! Believe there are direct flights laugh

Thanks for the hints
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Sep 21, 2007 8:46 AM CST From friends to more??!
gporg
gporggporgLija, Majjistral Malta3 Threads 45 Posts
Noppee...no chance of that...a long term friend counts much more than a quck lay in the hay with someone you just met. Not my style man!!
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