~~JEALOUSY~~ ( Archived) (20)

Warning! If you are involved with anyone that has jealous tendencies, the realationship is heading for failure. Save yourself the anguish, and the heartache. Plenty here have been in that in situation. You get accused of doing something you didn't do. Jealousy is lack of trust. You can never win that trust with someone that is that insecure. So if you get the red Flags early on. DO NOT IGNORE THEM! Little things like. "Who where you talking to"? or "You must be chatting with someone else, I'll let you go": Sound familiar. You deserve better,. No one is that desperate. You can't change the way they think, only they can.
Peace

You been busy haven't cha B??? LOL

Um yep. Joined a new site. I'm quite popular there. Who would have thought.

Makes you wonder if these people ever get it? Or do they continue their life the same way? I think very few learn.

You are a popular person everywhere big B..

My ex husband used to go through my purse, wallet, car, glove compartment, clothing, pockets, undergarments..if it was mine nothing was sacred or above suspision.

Got really bad when we broke up and he snuck into my house and bugged me and put bug in the car too. He has listening to things I was doing, people I was talking too,etc., etc.

I moved out of that house and went and stayed with friends till I could get my own place. He followed me and my friends, called me at all hours of the day and night.

he did'nt tell me about the bugging until after we got back together "briefly"..he brought out the tapes and told me that I needed to tell him who was on the tapes with me and if I did that then he could forgive me and we could move on from then.

I rushed out of there as quickly as I could and divorced him...I don't judge every man by the standard I use for him specifically,but having this done to me I think I am more than qualified to pick up on the "RED FLAGS" and signs of control, I guess I should be thankful for that??

I can't help it.

WOW That is one of the worst I've heard. Taking back an Ex that is messed up is like taking a drink of milk, and finding out it's sour. You don't put it back in the fridge and try iy again later. I made that mistake once myself. We live we learn.

Funny yet sad.