a friend in need is a friend in deed. (need Advice) ( Archived) (8)

as a rule ppl like to having someone close to rely on, someone to trust and confide in. but how can we actually test someone whether they do deserve to be dubbed friend? a good friend may seem all the best faithful more than understanding and even trustful.however its only when a situation takes a turn for the worse and becomes dangerous that we can practically reveal the real character, dedication and traits of a fellow. since were all primitive creatures deep inside we tend to be more or less selfish.lets face it - natural instincts r stronger than any other promise of fidelity and any relationship.what we, as friends, should be able to have the guts to do, is, i believe, fight these instincts and try to be as helpful and responsive to other peoples needs as possible.when it comes to saving a friend who is in grave danger, for example on the edge of burning in fire its pretty likely that we think for a little while before we decide to rush into the flames, if we rush at all. and her is some advice if a friend of yrs is not willing to do you a simple favour estimate yslf the chances that he or she saves yr life.a plight, desperation, dire straits - these r the crucial moments through which a friendship should have gone, so that we could call it like that.in addition whether someone we value as a person is going to minister to our needs depends on how good a friend he or she in fact is.