"And if you are one of those gals expected to change my mind about commitment DON'T BOTHER! Just being Honest"
Maybe expand on how you view Commitment i.e. what are your views on committment. The above statement can taken either way..either you are not into commitment or you are, and you dont want as woman who doesnt believe in committment
I'd like to add your statement: "My ideal match would be a woman preferably who has kids and who is not looking for a serious relationship." especialy the part "who is not looking for a serious relationship." is he wrong approach, however HONEST it may seem.
You are cutting your OWN chances of finding the Ms RIGHT, because even tho you may feel no deep desire to be in a serious relationship NOW, who is to say, you wont YOURSELF change your mind if you come accross a woman you find fascinating.
Imagine Pamela Anderson (has kids, drinks and smokes ) reading your profile. Do you think she would bother writing?
Well i have just been in some situations where the woman agrees with taking it slow then change to I want commitment right now before they even get to know me.
Also the comment about having kids, I was dating a gal who had never had kids nor did she want kids and there is just something missing in a person like that. I just need to clarify I guess in saying that I need someone who might understand kids ( not a mother replacement but as an understanding person) I am just in a difficult situation since my sons mother has passed away since he was five and he deserves someone more understanding.
If I were you~I wouldn't change anything on your profile. You're being honest. No sense lying and then ending up with someone you can't stand...........right?
I think the only thing to add would be more about yourself.
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I can't seem to get any responses.
Please be gentle