Shipoker, very often women say things and do exactly the opposite.
For instance, I have dated a girl and have also seen many of my friends who are women say they would never think of getting married.
Guess what happens, they get married soon after making these statements. And no I didn`t ask any of them to marry me.
It`s just that things can and do change from day to day. Sometimes I think the profiles are a description of an Ideal date or mate. A wish list if you will. Just because one or two things on the wish list do not match, doesn`t mean she will not find you to be everything she can expect.
I won't argue, and this will be my last post here. Don't want to get deleted for disagreeing. If a woman says she likes this and this and this and adds that she likes tall me....why would i bother? We may match on ten issues, but if the 11th issue doesn't match...time to "but" out. Don't you think? That was rhetorical...because I won't be here to see the answer..have a great night
I find myself doing the same thing at times, not sending an email, or making an initial contact, due to my self inflicted buts. Partially its shyness, partially not feeling my self worth at a given point in time, other times I get right past the buts.
Being a big fan of butts here... (the male butts of course)...I will say this...I think its the attitude behind the butts that stop us...for example...
Negative>>>>>I really like him BUTT he lives in another state.
Positive>>>>>>I really like him BUTT he lives in another state....BUTT I would get to travel and learn about his state...and he can travel and learn about mine.
May not be the best example BUTT... I hope ya get the point...
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For instance, I have dated a girl and have also seen many of my friends who are women say they would never think of getting married.
Guess what happens, they get married soon after making these statements. And no I didn`t ask any of them to marry me.
It`s just that things can and do change from day to day.
Sometimes I think the profiles are a description of an Ideal date or mate.
A wish list if you will. Just because one or two things on the wish list do not match, doesn`t mean she will not find you to be everything she can expect.
I know, you`re thinking, butt out, right?