Is your "But" keeping you from finding someone? The "But" is when you say to yourself "I really like this guy/gal, BUT, they live to far away, or they think to liberal/conservative, whatever your "But" may be, is it keeping you from finding that someone? I used to think that distance could be a big "But", but i don't think that anymore.
I agree in part with your point, BUT, sometimes there are some big BUTS and you ahve to pay attention to those BUTS, especially when those BUTS turn out to be flags, then you might want to run and save your BUT !!!
It's the "buts" that keep you from making a complete fool of yourself!! I feel if I am reading a profile and there is something that doesn't fit what I am looking for...I "but" out
And if I see that there is something about me that she isn't interested, again, I "but" out
My “buts” are geared more to…“I doubt she’s interested in me” more than anything else. Good post. I really need to be in the race more often. Not doing so is more of an injustice to me as well as, to my potential partner.
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