What is the difference between infatuation and love? ( Archived) (131)

Oct 10, 2007 6:51 PM CST What is the difference between infatuation and love?
TheEnglishman
TheEnglishmanTheEnglishmanNewport, Shropshire, England UK7 Threads 520 Posts
Mitch..of all things you have written,,this is the only thing I would disagree with.
I found that love and loving someone can be anything but a choice..I cannot explain it here,,not enough room..but it can just happen,,all of a sudden,,that girl has some kinda imeasureable "thing"..."quality",,"presence",,in yer life and suddenly,,when she's not there..yer life goes wierd..can't think straight and wish she was there.
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Oct 10, 2007 6:55 PM CST What is the difference between infatuation and love?
Scottrssll
ScottrssllScottrssllNorfolk, Virginia USA12 Threads 266 Posts
Sweetheart, there is no dark side of the moon.... a lyric for you:

And in my darkest moments
Fetal and Weeping
The moon tells me a secret
In confidence

She says:

As full and bright as I am
This light is not my own
And a million light reflections

Pass over me

The source is bright and endless
The source is faith to hopeless
Without her we are lifeless satellites

Drifting


-Maynard James Keenan
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Oct 10, 2007 6:56 PM CST What is the difference between infatuation and love?
Mitchell1
Mitchell1Mitchell1Chattanooga, USA116 Threads 5,584 Posts
Well, I`m glad we finally a point to disagree on.

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 10, 2007 6:57 PM CST What is the difference between infatuation and love?
Scottrssll
ScottrssllScottrssllNorfolk, Virginia USA12 Threads 266 Posts
That sounds nice.....:)
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Oct 10, 2007 7:03 PM CST What is the difference between infatuation and love?
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
reminds me of Platos allegory of the cave sigh I am a prisoner and the world is my cage crying and all of you are shadows drifting past ... batting
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Oct 10, 2007 7:10 PM CST What is the difference between infatuation and love?
TheEnglishman
TheEnglishmanTheEnglishmanNewport, Shropshire, England UK7 Threads 520 Posts
just drifting by OK...nice cave,,love the funishings but for heavens sake woman get rid of the bats..loll
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Oct 10, 2007 7:17 PM CST What is the difference between infatuation and love?
Scottrssll
ScottrssllScottrssllNorfolk, Virginia USA12 Threads 266 Posts
Plato.... I was just reading the republic earlier.
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Oct 10, 2007 8:19 PM CST What is the difference between infatuation and love?
Plainfieldguy
PlainfieldguyPlainfieldguyplainfield, Indiana USA13 Threads 984 Posts
Infatuation: admiring her knockers

Love: not realizing she even has them....


...........hope ya can read between the lines....... wink
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Oct 10, 2007 8:20 PM CST What is the difference between infatuation and love?
modernday_cowboy
modernday_cowboymodernday_cowboyRoanoke, Virginia USA17 Threads 84 Posts
Love takes time to grow....... everything else may feel like Love at first...but truthfully it takes time to know someone, and Love can grow from there...and the chemistry that was felt at first grows into a knowing this is the person you want spend a lifetime with, the chemistry still exsists but it is there with much more depth.

It is Love when you have been together for a long time...say 6 months to a year at least and you still cant stand to be a day without them!


Heed to all ..................take your time, Do nothing in haste! let the infatution fade and the Love grow....we all know our emotions can play tricks on us..BUT take the time and travel the 12 inches from your heart to your mind and think about the relationship your in ...think with your mind and decide if your emotions are real.

thumbs up
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Oct 10, 2007 8:22 PM CST What is the difference between infatuation and love?
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
Infatuation for me is like an illness. An obsession. Where all you do is eat, breath, sleep and think of someone or something. Where you have no control of the situation and need help in my opinion.

Love for me is someone who can love you but also can trust you, have confidence in you, give you your space and respect you as well.

I have dated a man who was infatuated once. I swear I nearly lost my marbles. I couldn't breath or do anything without him breathing down my back and holy clingy!!! Drove me bonkers!! I eventualy just got fed up and told him to take a hike! He obviously had serious issues that needed to be dealt with before getting into any kind of relationship.
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Oct 11, 2007 2:48 PM CST What is the difference between infatuation and love?
ibglenny
ibglennyibglennyNorfolk, Virginia USA10 Threads 245 Posts
Hey! don't forget about your mother! I am ALWAYS lurking in your threads with my proud haloinnocent
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