Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!! (19)

Oct 13, 2007 12:25 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
bbwandcute
bbwandcutebbwandcuteTauranga, Bay of Plenty New Zealand46 Threads 668 Posts
Ok, soooo i have a hot lunch date tommorrow. Wish me luck?
He seems nice enough guy. Please put some positive vibes out there for me guys as i am a little apprehensive this time around after the last lot of um errr dating experiences.

I have told him just strictly friends at this stage nothing more then we have not expectations of each other than to get to know each other and have a nice lunch. To be honest though, i have just about given up on love so am going as a matter of course, but he tells me he is really nervous awww shucks. Not sure why as i dont bite on the first date.. much prefer to nibble... lol!!

One good trait that i like though, is that he does what he says he is going to do. He has organised the date and thought about some suggestions besides going out for lunch, has told me the time and where to meet him. (He does not know where i live, which is fine at this stage) He has not just sat back and dillied dallied around and just talked the talk or waited for me to organise the date so then all he has to do is turn up..instead.....he has been postively assertive, has said to me we can go at my pace after my last lot of experiences. Maybe the tide is turning... i have finally met a real man.

I will report back tommorrow night. innocent
Oct 13, 2007 12:56 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
PurpleLacrymosa
PurpleLacrymosaPurpleLacrymosa4810, Queensland Australia3 Threads 67 Posts
hug

Good luck Karen!!!!

Hope it all goes well for you....kiss
Oct 13, 2007 1:17 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
slowmover
slowmoverslowmoverKo-Samui, Northeastern Thailand Thailand2 Threads 105 Posts
Fingers and legs crossed for youcheering cheering devil
Oct 13, 2007 1:50 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
newbie80
newbie80newbie80Newcastle, New South Wales Australia3 Threads 82 Posts
all the best. play hard to get wink
Oct 13, 2007 2:04 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
rochy
rochyrochyhigh country, Victoria Australia5 Threads 150 Posts
scold
behave yourself !conversing
wish you well
thumbs up
Oct 13, 2007 2:36 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
bbwandcute
bbwandcutebbwandcuteTauranga, Bay of Plenty New Zealand46 Threads 668 Posts
Thanks guys, appreciate the kind words.
handshake
Oct 13, 2007 3:08 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
Lou79
Lou79Lou79Near Echuca, New South Wales Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 1,318 Posts
He will be a keeper as he seems different already!

Good luck lovey!
Oct 13, 2007 3:17 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
simplesimon
simplesimonsimplesimonAuckland, New Zealand9 Threads 171 Posts
Best of luck BBW.....thumbs up
Oct 13, 2007 4:19 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
GoGirl1302
GoGirl1302GoGirl1302Sunshine Coast, Queensland Australia21 Threads 618 Posts
Enjoy Karen! Wise move lowering expectations and if anything more a bonus - just relax, enjoy each other's company and let it flow! You deserve the best wine hug
Oct 13, 2007 9:13 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
seadrift
seadriftseadriftBrisbane, Queensland Australia5 Threads 147 Posts
going by your forums your are a lovly person fun loving
great sence of humor, and a pleasure to be with,have a great nite on your date applause behave (not) have a good nite pet
Oct 13, 2007 10:48 PM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
bbwandcute
bbwandcutebbwandcuteTauranga, Bay of Plenty New Zealand46 Threads 668 Posts
Ok here is the update on the lunch.
It was really nice, we went up to this old reformed quarry that has been turned into gardens and has sculptures etc in it and wandered around there, and then when out for lunch and then went and did another few things, and got a chance to sit and talk. He looks awfully like Newbie in looks who looks awfully like my ex, but anyways this guy seems to have a lot nicer qualities than my ex so that is a bonus.

So there you go everyone loves a happy ending..... I am not sure if he wants to see me again, i think so. He seemed to enjoy himself and i was the one who ended the day as i had things to do. But we were together for about six hours so i obviously didnt scare him away too quickly lol! The best thing is that he is a local boy.

So far so good... your positive vibes must be working guys!! peace
Oct 13, 2007 11:30 PM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
rochy
rochyrochyhigh country, Victoria Australia5 Threads 150 Posts
cheering cheering applause
Oct 13, 2007 11:58 PM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
PurpleLacrymosa
PurpleLacrymosaPurpleLacrymosa4810, Queensland Australia3 Threads 67 Posts
Sounds like you both had a nice time Karen...yay

Hope that you hear from him again soon so we can hear about the second date.....wave
Oct 14, 2007 12:36 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
GoGirl1302
GoGirl1302GoGirl1302Sunshine Coast, Queensland Australia21 Threads 618 Posts
Yay Kaz am so happy you had a great time - man 6 hours first date is a good innings hehe

And if he looks like Newbie be still my heart & hormones kiss rolling on the floor laughing

Good to hear and being a local ocle all the better - enjoy! hug
Oct 14, 2007 2:26 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
Lou79
Lou79Lou79Near Echuca, New South Wales Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 1,318 Posts
Awesome to hear chicky!.. Sounds like you had a blast!..

hug
Oct 14, 2007 3:44 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
bbwandcute
bbwandcutebbwandcuteTauranga, Bay of Plenty New Zealand46 Threads 668 Posts
Shucks thanks guys...
Ok newsflash, just been asked out for second date... however i have had to fob him off (genuinly) until thursday night. But well ok maybe a little of me is playing hard to get lol!!

Anyway its all good, he said i was a perfect date. aww!!
So its all good. yay
Oct 14, 2007 6:16 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
Lou79
Lou79Lou79Near Echuca, New South Wales Australia79 Threads 1 Polls 1,318 Posts
That is the best news all day!!

Am so excited for you!cheering
Oct 15, 2007 3:54 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
seadrift
seadriftseadriftBrisbane, Queensland Australia5 Threads 147 Posts
Hey BBW

Good to hear

best of luck for thur nite
hope it all goes well for ya cheering
Oct 15, 2007 4:17 AM CST Newsflah -hot date..yep, here we go again!!
bbwandcute
bbwandcutebbwandcuteTauranga, Bay of Plenty New Zealand46 Threads 668 Posts
Cheers sounds like its all on, he is coming around on Wed night with his camera to take some pics of my clay work on his flash digital so hopefully i can download some pics. NOOOO it is not would you like to check my etchings out sort of thing.... you guys honestly!!! Also would be great i can then put them on here for a few of you guys that are interested.

I am trying to go slow, he is putting on the pressure, but has told me that we can go at my pace. I think he is just keen. So it is all in a good way and not anything makes me feel uncomfortable and i am in control of that side which sort of makes me want him more... hmmm ???

Oh be still thy raging hormones..... i declined the invitation to share the spa at his house tonight..... i am sooooo good. Newbies words "play hard to get karen' are just ringing loudly. So am trying really hard, not to be too available or too much info etc. Wed night just cant get here soon enough.!!! Have a good one guys. cheers
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