Why do big girls have to finish last???? ( Archived) (54)

Oct 17, 2007 9:46 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
temptations
temptationstemptationsvernon, Texas USA3 Threads 39 Posts
Exactly, why is it that a man cannot accept a woman the way she is. Every man i have ever met thought he could just walk up and change me. I need a man's opinion on this situation. I'm not bowing down to anyone no matter how handsome he is. Are there any rooms where the BBW's and their admirers get together and conversate???
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Oct 17, 2007 9:51 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
yes, there are many BBW sights, but most are pay sites. All BBw dating sites I have seen have been pay sites
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Oct 17, 2007 9:51 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
I never tried to change a woman, its a recipe to get walloped.

I don't know about a specific place to discuss on here though, but everyones friendly !confused

Looks like you've just been out with the wrong men i guess?doh

beer
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Oct 17, 2007 9:54 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
There you have it in a bag.

Why do you think yourself special enough to go to a specialised place. Aren't you a Human being like the rest of us.

Relax and have fun. Let people get to know you for your postings, Which will reveal the angel inside.
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Oct 17, 2007 9:54 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
temptations
temptationstemptationsvernon, Texas USA3 Threads 39 Posts
thanks and yes, you are right......
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Oct 17, 2007 9:54 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
temptations
temptationstemptationsvernon, Texas USA3 Threads 39 Posts
thanks and yes, you are right......
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Oct 17, 2007 9:55 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I belong to two BBW members rooms on Yahoo
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Oct 17, 2007 9:56 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
temptations
temptationstemptationsvernon, Texas USA3 Threads 39 Posts
I don't consider myself special.. I consider myself equal to EVERYONE else. I look from the inside out. But yes, dear, I will continue to post and everyone will know me for who i am.
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Oct 17, 2007 9:57 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
temptations
temptationstemptationsvernon, Texas USA3 Threads 39 Posts
you are right. this is an amazingly friendly site. I could get hooked.....
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Oct 17, 2007 10:01 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
wow....next flight to Mexico????banana
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Oct 17, 2007 10:01 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
BeautifulEri
BeautifulEriBeautifulEriGuadalajara, Jalisco Mexico77 Threads 1 Polls 4,559 Posts
And BTW, thought this thread was about something else, due to your "title"...lol....Never related it to what's about..wink
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Oct 17, 2007 10:04 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
cswelcome temptations,sounds like a few replies and your cheering up some.Be who you are and enjoy it herehandshake
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Oct 17, 2007 10:08 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
BeautifulEri
BeautifulEriBeautifulEriGuadalajara, Jalisco Mexico77 Threads 1 Polls 4,559 Posts
blushing
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Oct 17, 2007 10:11 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
I already got the ticket. Hermosa is mine! tongue
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Oct 17, 2007 10:13 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
BeautifulEri
BeautifulEriBeautifulEriGuadalajara, Jalisco Mexico77 Threads 1 Polls 4,559 Posts
Hey sweety...wave

What time do I pick you at the airport?tongue

handshake
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Oct 17, 2007 10:17 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
Hi ya grin

I will land when you want me to yay
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Oct 17, 2007 10:21 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
BeautifulEri
BeautifulEriBeautifulEriGuadalajara, Jalisco Mexico77 Threads 1 Polls 4,559 Posts
blushing confused applause
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Oct 17, 2007 11:43 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
PrincessErin
PrincessErinPrincessErinbrooklyn heights, Ohio USA4 Threads 294 Posts
I have to admit that I have often felt the way you have. It is very frustrating to be ridiculed and rejected because of the numbers that come up on a scale when you stand on it. It doesnt diminish who you are, but in my opinion, enhances it. It took me a long time, but I have found that the key is to be comfortable with myself and love myself just as I hope you do =) I belong to many bbw groups and it is from those groups that I found the confidence that I needed to be happy with who I am and to be confident around everyone. It wasn't that it was a bbw group, it was that it was a group much like CS. There were people of all different shapes, sizes, ages, ect...and all were warm and loving people who showed me kindness and how to be happy that I am alive and God made me the way he did. I have never let size get in my way. When people told me I couldn't do something...I did it. When objects of my affection rejected me, I chalked it up to their loss and moved on. I know it hurts and it is frustrating, but finding the right person takes time. I am going through that now myself and I'm frustrated, but I know that someday he'll come. I think the key is just taking a deep breath, relaxing, and loving yourself before you can love another. Good luck, friend!!
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Oct 17, 2007 11:58 PM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
Unmatchable
UnmatchableUnmatchableMartinsville, USA22 Threads 790 Posts
Not all, but some of the BBW's out there are a tad bit picky about the appearance of someone they'll be with, yet they expect to be completely accepted for how they look themself. If you look like Roseanne but want to be with Brad Pitt, then you shouldn't be too surprised that Brad may suggest you try to improve yourself.
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Oct 18, 2007 3:59 AM CST Why do big girls have to finish last????
peacefullights
peacefullightspeacefullightsTilburg, North Brabant Netherlands9 Posts
Me too feel is this way. I totally agree with you that time needed to find the right person. Good luck!!! cheering wave
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