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Nov 1, 2007 4:46 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
Loving someone or being loved by someone
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Nov 1, 2007 4:48 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
In my case it has to be loving someone,because I feel the need to be there for that person in all situations,good or bad,(to a point if u get my meaning) Being loved(in a good way) is enjoyable.grin
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Nov 1, 2007 4:50 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Hmmm.. good question.. I don't know! laugh

I THINK for me.. they are equal.
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Nov 1, 2007 4:50 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Not an easy question to answer but I'll have to say "Loving someone"
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Nov 1, 2007 4:51 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Both have equal repsponsibility...One person loves and the other is loved by if you're a couple...They each must put 100% into the relationship in order for it to be healthy and balanced...wine rose
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Nov 1, 2007 4:52 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
pearl777
pearl777pearl777Plovdiv, Bulgaria242 Threads 33 Polls 4,812 Posts
Both
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Nov 1, 2007 4:53 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
More responsibility comes with loving a person who doesn't reciprocate or love back as much. When two people genuinely love each other, it becomes a natural as breathing. It changes from responsibility to comfort.


smitten
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Nov 1, 2007 4:55 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Thats true if your talking about couples.
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Nov 1, 2007 4:55 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
Well saidgrin
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Nov 1, 2007 4:57 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
I just don't know anymore.
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Nov 1, 2007 4:58 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
thumbs up wine
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Nov 1, 2007 4:58 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
pearl777
pearl777pearl777Plovdiv, Bulgaria242 Threads 33 Polls 4,812 Posts
Nor am I
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Nov 1, 2007 4:59 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Have to agree here, It can go both ways though.
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Nov 1, 2007 5:01 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
If the love you share with someone leads you to such confusion then you are either not right for them or just not in the 'comfort' level.
Best to take time to weigh things before you heart's drenched with resentment.
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Nov 1, 2007 5:07 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Yeah, you know sometimes we should ask ourselves if continuing to love someone is our way of promising ourselves some of the same being given back 'someday' or just a bad habit that grew out of what we once knew as 'hapiness'.

Anyhow, if we really love someone, can't we also show it by setting them free?dunno
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Nov 1, 2007 5:08 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
in the ideal sense I agree,

yet personally

I believe many(including myself) have been painfully patient for so long and others maybe have never known what either really entails.

I'm having thoughts that maybe I would cherish/ value being loved more than me giving the same love.
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Nov 1, 2007 5:13 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
That's what you feel now.

When you meet the right person, you will not want to be loved more because that wouldn't be love but convenience.
True love is selfless and brings the biggest joy to want to make the other more secure with us than any other way.

Be patient.
hug
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Nov 1, 2007 5:21 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
You can set them free but does that set yourself free ? dunno
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Nov 1, 2007 5:48 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
In the long run it does. I wouldn't prefer to be with a person who didn't love me completely.

conversing
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Nov 1, 2007 5:56 PM CST which comes with more responsiblity...
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
it sontinues to get more confusing

now i read there is being loved and being loved completely??frustrated


in the olden days if I was given a headache like this I'd be given the aspirun(assburn(
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