Three months down the line. All I did was get angry with him because he let me down on a date tonight, not for the first time, and he has started all the thing about me being possesive, and saying that I need to fit in with his work and life.
If you value your friendship/relationship with this man, back off... now. Be polite, be kind, be friendly when you interact with him... but make those interactions shorter, fewer, and more spaced out. He's feeling smothered and you don't back off some, you'll jeopardize things.
Of course, there's always the other option which is to decide for yourself that you don't waste your time on someone who doesn't welcome you into their life with open arms and without inhibitions...
Sounds like you should start fitting in. I know it's harsh, but if your serious? and he is uable to change, then you may have to make the decision to adjust your life to fit into his better.
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