I've been told that I'm just too picky, to lower my standards or remain alone. I'll choose to remain alone. I've known so many people that can go from one relationship to another rather than spend any time alone. Seems as long as there's a warm body beside them, they're fine. I want a peer, not just a woman to fill in the space beside me. Paws
CautiousSingleSouthern, British Columbia Canada697 posts
no, you're aren't "supposed" to have standards
For me the norm is " Am I attracted to him?" Lowering the standard is "Well, he has a pulse, there's no other man around and he does appear interested........"
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