Good looking men and ther insecurities (23)
starliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 PostsI know a few good men,actually maybe they are not so good,but there lady friends are great,and when and if thet are not home when they think they should be,all hell breaks lose......WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Possibly the lady friends are a bit to untrusting.I've seen it happen myself.
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I use to date this guy who was never home when he said he would be it was always hours later. His excuses were good I trusted him until he screwed up once and got really drunk and had the girl he was with call my house because she thought I was the babysitter to tell me he would be spending the night there. yea so now I get a little worried.
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I'm not insecure :)
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Would it maybe have a little bit to do with communication? If the two are not touching base and he is not showing her affection and reassuring her that she is loved and worthwhile, she will naturally feel insecure. Also, how does he behave with other women in public? I have known really good guys and some real heels , attractive. Is he arrogant, give this body language that he knows he's goodlooking? Does he leer and flirt with other woman openly? If he acts in such a way that gives his lady reassurance, she should have no worries. Otherwise, who can blame her?
Joanne
Joanne
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Am I insecure? Yes! I’ve had very good reason for feeling this way, which I’m trying to break free from. I believe the insecurity stems from little or no communications with the significant other or being told one thing and finding out something else. I know that this was some of the main reasons that brought my marriage to an end. I’m the type of person that exudes very strong morals and despises hypocrites . When I go to bed at night I like to have totally clear conscience so that I can sleep at night. I sometimes wonder how some people can actually sleep….
Bill
Bill
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Maybe they think that because they are good looking that they know they can have options to play. If they commit and give that up then they feel betrayed cause hey, they gave up all other women for this one. I dunno?
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Us goodlooking guys all are insecure to some extent, just like everyone else, something to be worked on and cultivated
Even the ones that claim they arn't, really are!
Even the ones that claim they arn't, really are!
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I don't get it. If you can't trust your friend or spouse to go out, you might as well pack it in because you have nothing. This is commonly refered to as control. I have had it done to me and I hated it. I wouldn't last 5 minutes in one of these relationships.
Star most of us call these guys jerks!
Pete
Star most of us call these guys jerks!
Pete
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LOL... that is exactly how I feel too Tampa. I was the kind of wife that it was alright if my husband had female friends and had his "stuff" he liked to do. Once I found out he was having affairs though the trust went out the window. When I got out and did something I got accused of going out to cheat.
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Sounds like a great relationship. LOL Good morning
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Nope..We are divorced...lol. Been away from him for about 12 years. One time he attacked me cause I thought it was ridiculous because he got so jealous because I was having a converstaion with a guy at a friends house.. just a converstaion. I made fun of the fact and jokingly teased him. When we got home he attacked... arsehole!!!
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This conversation is interesting to me. May interject some perspective?
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I guess if that is what does it for ya..lol
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thank you
I have been in some relaationships that were a bit liberal in this regard. I Try to allow people to be who ever they want to be.
I cont consider my self to be good looking, Its just the extrodenary wemon that have been attrraacted to me cause me to think that maybe I am not that bad.
The insecurities I deal with were from a jelus father that insist on demeaning me to the point that I can not stand rejection in as much as it
tends to reinforse the pains of childhood.
O Yah there is the stuff of women going crazy in my life and comming out of nowhere packing a gun that has caused me to become a little eprehensive about approching folks.
Do you know what I mean
Can I help with the level of communication here?
I have been in some relaationships that were a bit liberal in this regard. I Try to allow people to be who ever they want to be.
I cont consider my self to be good looking, Its just the extrodenary wemon that have been attrraacted to me cause me to think that maybe I am not that bad.
The insecurities I deal with were from a jelus father that insist on demeaning me to the point that I can not stand rejection in as much as it
tends to reinforse the pains of childhood.
O Yah there is the stuff of women going crazy in my life and comming out of nowhere packing a gun that has caused me to become a little eprehensive about approching folks.
Do you know what I mean
Can I help with the level of communication here?
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I guess not, Well so much for that.
You folks have a good tiem.
You folks have a good tiem.
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Yes your input is good to have Eventually
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Is this really a question? I mean is it the ladies that are out too late or the guys that are? And is there a Difference, What I like the most is that you can meet a woman when she is out with her friends at the bar and its ok to be there with them until you get in a relationship with them and then its Nope.. not anymore, now your what they want to get away from, I don't get it, and from what i have found from being in the whole party industry is that people that go out on girls nights and on guys nights that aren't married are just looking for some time to find someone better. isn't that why we are all single anyway, we either got out done by someone else or dumped off the last one that didn't quite cut the mustard. I got some issues..
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I guess it really doesn't matter if is the guys or the girls. There are alot of insecure females our there too for sure. As far as hanging with the girls at the bar being ok until you have a relationship, is it with one or more? I'm not quite clear. Do you mean that her friends don't want to be your friends anymore cause your going out with one of their friend? In that case I guess it's good to have a clear understanding before you go so far as to have a relationship so you know how each other feels about certain things. That way you can decide if having a relationship with them is worth it. As far as the girls and guys nights out, well, if you are single I guess you have no one sooo. I know plenty of people who have trust in their relationships and go out on their nights and may flirt some and have fun but that is as far as it goes. I dunno?
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Just my weetahded theory...
I think over the top good looking people are just used to being swooned over. How many times have you witnessed a relationship where someone put up with subhuman treatment from their stunning counterpart?
Should the stunning half actually get ahold of someone with confidence and self respect, they're flabbergasted at the prospect of not being worshipped 24/7.
I think over the top good looking people are just used to being swooned over. How many times have you witnessed a relationship where someone put up with subhuman treatment from their stunning counterpart?
Should the stunning half actually get ahold of someone with confidence and self respect, they're flabbergasted at the prospect of not being worshipped 24/7.
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