Helloooo all ..on weekends they see me as a cheerfull person dancing and stuff..but during the week when they dont see me i feel lonely and unhappy.Do i have a split personality or what ????? tell me.
Depends if 'they' are your invisisble friends or not!! dont mind me Im just mean! haha! It seems to me that when you are surrounded by people in a good atmosphere you are happy and when you are stuck at work surrounded by knobheads it is natural to feel unhappy, so no, there is nothing wrong with you - maybe you need to find a different job!
Hi ants.... the problem is its not my job.. its when i come home left alone from everybody .at least so it seems...i always look forward to the weekend so i can dance and have fun.. it seems during the week i dont have fun....its like being in the midlle of the wood and not seeing trees... but thanks for your answer anyway... hughzzzz
Sorry Pretty lady, But that is nothing wrong with his job he need to find something in his time off a passtime, and keep rocking on the weekend. need a more balance on his life
Ok so we have ruled out your job! Do you like your own company or do you feel unfortable when you are alone?? Strange question I know but it may be the key to the problem. Are you always thinking about what else you could be doing rather than what you are doing at that very moment??
could it be possible that i dont want to accept reality and only accept the good parts of life.. like being loved or having a good time or close my eyes for the bad things ??
Yes possibly but without the bad parts of life how can you become a stronger person, its what you do with the knowledge you have that makes the difference, start opening your eyes for the bad things - they arent as bad as you may think they are, then maybe you can accept that they are there and learn to deal with them a little better - just do it slowly and be mindful of what you are doing. If you keep running away from them they will just follow you - turn and face your demons - you will find that they arent as scarey as you thought after all and you will think a hell of a lot more of yourself for doing so.
Mr. Nico all you need is to balance your life, Look for a Hobby on your time off, To keep your mind off Work and the loneliness, you will not acomplish nothing by being at home after work except have keep thinking about the weekends (And who don't) but it's all about balance and again keep rocking in the weekends.
I think we all have different persona's. when at work I am a royal pain to some, when at the bar/pub i am a easy sort. when out with close friends or date i am different. It is good that you have these different persona's, other wise you woud be a robot only acting and responding in one way....as for the lonely feeling I think thats why most of us are here..
when doing things you like you are happy and cheerful, when home alone during week you feel unhappy.......
sounds like a normal response to me....i have a bumper sticker, it's an old one T.G.I.F. (thank god its Friday)
it's called being lonely...........get yourself a hobby, or something to keep yourself busy.........I would get lonely...but I'm lucky...I have a 6 yr old and I can't even go to the bathroom in peace!!!!!!!
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