Split personality or something else ?? ( Archived) (19)

Mar 27, 2006 9:09 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
nicosan
nicosannicosanAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium8 Threads 79 Posts
Helloooo all ..on weekends they see me as a cheerfull person dancing and stuff..but during the week when they dont see me i feel lonely and unhappy.Do i have a split personality or what ????? tell me.
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Mar 27, 2006 9:14 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
izzyva
izzyvaizzyvaHighland Springs, Virginia USA7 Threads 2,070 Posts
No, that happens basically to everybody that have a job and responsibilities. and work for a living
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Mar 27, 2006 9:17 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
nicosan
nicosannicosanAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium8 Threads 79 Posts
thanks mate.... i tought i was the only one having this problem.... see you somewhere...
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Mar 27, 2006 9:18 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
Depends if 'they' are your invisisble friends or not!! dont mind me Im just mean! haha! It seems to me that when you are surrounded by people in a good atmosphere you are happy and when you are stuck at work surrounded by knobheads it is natural to feel unhappy, so no, there is nothing wrong with you - maybe you need to find a different job!
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Mar 27, 2006 9:21 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
izzyva
izzyvaizzyvaHighland Springs, Virginia USA7 Threads 2,070 Posts
De nada senor Espanol
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Mar 27, 2006 9:23 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
nicosan
nicosannicosanAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium8 Threads 79 Posts
Hi ants.... the problem is its not my job.. its when i come home left alone from everybody .at least so it seems...i always look forward to the weekend so i can dance and have fun.. it seems during the week i dont have fun....its like being in the midlle of the wood and not seeing trees...
but thanks for your answer anyway... hughzzzz
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Mar 27, 2006 9:23 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
izzyva
izzyvaizzyvaHighland Springs, Virginia USA7 Threads 2,070 Posts
Sorry Pretty lady, But that is nothing wrong with his job he need to find something in his time off a passtime, and keep rocking on the weekend. need a more balance on his life
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Mar 27, 2006 9:25 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
That means your welcome!! ;-)
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Mar 27, 2006 9:27 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
Ok so we have ruled out your job! Do you like your own company or do you feel unfortable when you are alone?? Strange question I know but it may be the key to the problem. Are you always thinking about what else you could be doing rather than what you are doing at that very moment??
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Mar 27, 2006 9:28 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
nicosan
nicosannicosanAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium8 Threads 79 Posts
could it be possible that i dont want to accept reality and only accept the good parts of life.. like being loved or having a good time or close my eyes for the bad things ??
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Mar 27, 2006 9:32 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
Yes possibly but without the bad parts of life how can you become a stronger person, its what you do with the knowledge you have that makes the difference, start opening your eyes for the bad things - they arent as bad as you may think they are, then maybe you can accept that they are there and learn to deal with them a little better - just do it slowly and be mindful of what you are doing. If you keep running away from them they will just follow you - turn and face your demons - you will find that they arent as scarey as you thought after all and you will think a hell of a lot more of yourself for doing so.
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Mar 27, 2006 9:38 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
Ignorance may be bliss, but it is a very shortlived bliss...

Facing the rough patches is all about balance and how to cope better for the next challenge. Embrace it and know you will be better by it...
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Mar 27, 2006 9:43 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
oi Tumpa - dont you go telling anyone that I said something intellegent! Ive got a reputation to uphold!
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Mar 27, 2006 9:46 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
izzyva
izzyvaizzyvaHighland Springs, Virginia USA7 Threads 2,070 Posts
Mr. Nico all you need is to balance your life, Look for a Hobby on your time off, To keep your mind off Work and the loneliness, you will not acomplish nothing by being at home after work except have keep thinking about the weekends (And who don't) but it's all about balance and again keep rocking in the weekends.

Buen Dia
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Mar 27, 2006 9:48 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
I think we all have different persona's. when at work I am a royal pain to some, when at the bar/pub i am a easy sort. when out with close friends or date i am different.
It is good that you have these different persona's, other wise you woud be a robot only acting and responding in one way....as for the lonely feeling I think thats why most of us are here..

when doing things you like you are happy and cheerful, when home alone during week you feel unhappy.......

sounds like a normal response to me....i have a bumper sticker, it's an old one T.G.I.F. (thank god its Friday)
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Mar 27, 2006 9:52 AM CST Split personality or something else ??
nicosan
nicosannicosanAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium8 Threads 79 Posts
Hi everybody .. i have to go... thanks to all for the nice reply... i will talk to you all very soon.. again THANKS......
HASTA LUEGO...
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Mar 27, 2006 2:52 PM CST Split personality or something else ??
Kiera
KieraKieraWoodbridge, Virginia USA5 Threads 148 Posts
it's called being lonely...........get yourself a hobby, or something to keep yourself busy.........I would get lonely...but I'm lucky...I have a 6 yr old and I can't even go to the bathroom in peace!!!!!!!
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Mar 27, 2006 2:54 PM CST Split personality or something else ??
Lillyofthevalley
LillyofthevalleyLillyofthevalleySt John's, Newfoundland Canada38 Threads 3,152 Posts
You only have two?
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Mar 27, 2006 7:34 PM CST Split personality or something else ??
oi Lil! How many have you got? Id like to meet them all! LOL!
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