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Dec 3, 2007 4:11 AM CST Morals...
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
I was all excited about being able to go to Ireland in January for the get together. I had everything all planned out and was ready to go...

On Friday evening, my boss threw a wrench in my plans...he was going to advance me the money to get my plane ticket and just deduct it out of my paycheck. I had found a really good deal on one too...

he tells me that if I want the advance...there is something that he wants from me first....he is married and has children....which makes this all the worse.

I am not the type of girl that would ever do anything like he is asking and am crushed that I now have to cancell my plans.

I can't afford to quit this job until I secure another...TRUST me....I am looking for another job...I can not work for someone who thinks so little of me or their family to have asked such a thing....


Thanks for letting me vent about this....I just can't wrap my head around this still....
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Dec 3, 2007 4:18 AM CST Morals...
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
I am a contract employee...I don't think I can make that kind of complaint...dunno
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Dec 3, 2007 4:18 AM CST Morals...
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
Thats horrendous. very mad
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Dec 3, 2007 4:21 AM CST Morals...
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
I so had my heart set on meeting everyone too...I can't believe this is happening.....
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Dec 3, 2007 4:22 AM CST Morals...
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
he is a franchise owner...there is no HR....
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Dec 3, 2007 4:23 AM CST Morals...
Dark1Angel8
Dark1Angel8Dark1Angel8Omaha, Nebraska USA21 Threads 704 Posts
I'd report it to the local police then Squirly. Get it on record. Or to the main headquarters of the franchise.
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Dec 3, 2007 4:26 AM CST Morals...
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
I didn't think about that....I will have to do that...

I will just have to wait until after I find a different job tho...he will cut my hours back to the point I will have no income...can't take that chance right now...

I am in a catch 22...damed if I do ....damed if I don't
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Dec 3, 2007 4:29 AM CST Morals...
Dark1Angel8
Dark1Angel8Dark1Angel8Omaha, Nebraska USA21 Threads 704 Posts
I'm not familar with the law. But if you don't report this now, they will wonder why you continued to work without reporting it.
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Dec 3, 2007 4:31 AM CST Morals...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Sorry you had to go through that degradation with your boss.


comfort

Why do married men/women cheat? doh

I'm sure we have many on cs who 'cheated' but will never tell us the real truth why their marriages failed. Does this thought EVER scare anyone because it does me!!!

Philandering- barf
thumbs down
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Dec 3, 2007 4:31 AM CST Morals...
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
I have been reading thru the statute books...I have not found anything yet that will help me once I report this when it comes to my pay...I just have to document everything...I do have some witnesses...problem is....they are too afraid of losing their jobs too..
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Dec 3, 2007 4:41 AM CST Morals...
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
Well get his home number. Ask for advance one more time and if he sings the same song threaten to call the wife.
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Dec 3, 2007 4:42 AM CST Morals...
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
I thought about that...I just couldn't hurt her like that...she has become a friend of mine...
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Dec 3, 2007 4:46 AM CST Morals...
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
As her friend...I would let her know what a slimeball she is married too....

does she use protection against any disease he may bring home....mumbling
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Dec 3, 2007 4:46 AM CST Morals...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Hurt her?? confused

Wouldn't you be helping her instead? confused
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Dec 3, 2007 4:47 AM CST Morals...
Dark1Angel8
Dark1Angel8Dark1Angel8Omaha, Nebraska USA21 Threads 704 Posts
Squirly, honey, I know you don't want to hurt his wife, but you also don't want to let something like this go. Heck, sweetie, pick up a part-time job at BK or McDonald's (worst case scenario) to help supplement your income until you can find something to replace this job. That way if he cuts your hours, you'll have something to fall back on. I know you shouldn't have to do this....It shouldn't have happened, period.
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Dec 3, 2007 4:47 AM CST Morals...
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
thumbs up
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Dec 3, 2007 4:48 AM CST Morals...
Dark1Angel8
Dark1Angel8Dark1Angel8Omaha, Nebraska USA21 Threads 704 Posts
Something else, Squirly. Get a small tape recorder. Bet he'd crap his pants if you played that back.
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Dec 3, 2007 4:51 AM CST Morals...
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
That is what I am gonna do in the morning...I have already filled out some job apps...just have to wait to turn them in.

I know it sounds strange me not wanting to tell his wife....I have been in that position before...I lost a very good friend that way...because I found her husband cheating on her....they are still together...he still cheats...and I don't have my friendblues
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Dec 3, 2007 4:54 AM CST Morals...
Dark1Angel8
Dark1Angel8Dark1Angel8Omaha, Nebraska USA21 Threads 704 Posts
That's also where the tape recorder could come in handy. You have cold hard proof of the fact he came onto you!

Your other friend may not have wanted to believe it. Where as this is evidence which could come into play in your suit against this man
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Dec 3, 2007 4:54 AM CST Morals...
mime61
mime61mime61Summerville, SC, South Carolina USA10 Threads 1 Polls 339 Posts
thumbs up Now that's a plan! I found out years later that my husband cheated on me...just didn't know when he had the time...and then, omg, I worried so about if I had caught anything from him...luckily I didn't...she has kids to look after...if you have the proof in hand she can't possibly hate you!

good luck honhug
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