I was all excited about being able to go to Ireland in January for the get together. I had everything all planned out and was ready to go...
On Friday evening, my boss threw a wrench in my plans...he was going to advance me the money to get my plane ticket and just deduct it out of my paycheck. I had found a really good deal on one too...
he tells me that if I want the advance...there is something that he wants from me first....he is married and has children....which makes this all the worse.
I am not the type of girl that would ever do anything like he is asking and am crushed that I now have to cancell my plans.
I can't afford to quit this job until I secure another...TRUST me....I am looking for another job...I can not work for someone who thinks so little of me or their family to have asked such a thing....
Thanks for letting me vent about this....I just can't wrap my head around this still....
I didn't think about that....I will have to do that...
I will just have to wait until after I find a different job tho...he will cut my hours back to the point I will have no income...can't take that chance right now...
I am in a catch 22...damed if I do ....damed if I don't
Sorry you had to go through that degradation with your boss.
Why do married men/women cheat?
I'm sure we have many on cs who 'cheated' but will never tell us the real truth why their marriages failed. Does this thought EVER scare anyone because it does me!!!
I have been reading thru the statute books...I have not found anything yet that will help me once I report this when it comes to my pay...I just have to document everything...I do have some witnesses...problem is....they are too afraid of losing their jobs too..
Squirly, honey, I know you don't want to hurt his wife, but you also don't want to let something like this go. Heck, sweetie, pick up a part-time job at BK or McDonald's (worst case scenario) to help supplement your income until you can find something to replace this job. That way if he cuts your hours, you'll have something to fall back on. I know you shouldn't have to do this....It shouldn't have happened, period.
That is what I am gonna do in the morning...I have already filled out some job apps...just have to wait to turn them in.
I know it sounds strange me not wanting to tell his wife....I have been in that position before...I lost a very good friend that way...because I found her husband cheating on her....they are still together...he still cheats...and I don't have my friend
mime61Summerville, SC, South Carolina USA339 posts
Now that's a plan! I found out years later that my husband cheated on me...just didn't know when he had the time...and then, omg, I worried so about if I had caught anything from him...luckily I didn't...she has kids to look after...if you have the proof in hand she can't possibly hate you!
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On Friday evening, my boss threw a wrench in my plans...he was going to advance me the money to get my plane ticket and just deduct it out of my paycheck. I had found a really good deal on one too...
he tells me that if I want the advance...there is something that he wants from me first....he is married and has children....which makes this all the worse.
I am not the type of girl that would ever do anything like he is asking and am crushed that I now have to cancell my plans.
I can't afford to quit this job until I secure another...TRUST me....I am looking for another job...I can not work for someone who thinks so little of me or their family to have asked such a thing....
Thanks for letting me vent about this....I just can't wrap my head around this still....