After the first date do you............... (9)

Dec 3, 2007 9:37 AM CST After the first date do you...............
Dawn50
Dawn50Dawn50Ottawa Valley, Ontario Canada182 Threads 1,338 Posts
What do you do, if know you have nothing in common and have no interest on another datedunno

Do you tell him/her the truth?

Or do you not say nothing?

What reason would you not say the truth ?

wine
Dec 3, 2007 3:30 PM CST After the first date do you...............
CaptainMurray
CaptainMurrayCaptainMurraySelkirk, Manitoba Canada59 Threads 2,130 Posts
I once told a woman, "It would be nice to say we should stay in touch, but I don't think it's a good idea"

She was my ex-wife whom I hadn't seen in over twenty years. Truedunno
Dec 3, 2007 3:42 PM CST After the first date do you...............
Dawn50
Dawn50Dawn50Ottawa Valley, Ontario Canada182 Threads 1,338 Posts
OMG..........rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Are you serious rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

hug hug
Dec 3, 2007 3:58 PM CST After the first date do you...............
CaptainMurray
CaptainMurrayCaptainMurraySelkirk, Manitoba Canada59 Threads 2,130 Posts
Yup, true story. She was still the same 17 year old hippie that I married. I left thinking wow, if we hadn't split up when we did, we sure would have by now.

It's all good. We learn and move on and we got over it.grin
Dec 3, 2007 6:58 PM CST After the first date do you...............
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
I would tell him the truth, sorry but why continue if you don't click. As that book Sorry but he was just not into you.dunno
Dec 4, 2007 6:27 AM CST After the first date do you...............
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
I'd let them know that we wouldn't be going out again,no use in letting them think there's interest when there's none.
Dec 4, 2007 2:13 PM CST After the first date do you...............
donnacala
donnacaladonnacalaNorth York, Ontario Canada27 Threads 875 Posts
first off, I don't think I would have gone out with him in the FIRST place, had there not been some common ground between us............

however, after meeting, IF I felt that there was absolutely no-freaking-way on earth connection....then yes, I would say thanks after the meeting and that was it.........

If he asked to see me again, I would nicely tell him....."hey, you seem like a great guy but NOT the great guy that I am looking for........but thank you for taking the time out to meet......it was fun".........

or something to that effect............ batting
Dec 6, 2007 3:17 PM CST After the first date do you...............
mostviper
mostvipermostviperguelph, Canada6 Threads 220 Posts
for myself personally....i think the truth is always the better option.....i have made many friends through the internet after meeting for a coffee.........and i am still in contact with them......although it's unfortunate i have not made that big connection.....oh well so be it!!! i value the friends i have made on these sites i have made 2 or 3 excellent friends.......and there was no BS being thrown around .....if i am meant to meet someone on one of these sites.....so be it......if i am not meant to.....thats ok too!!!
Dec 7, 2007 7:42 AM CST After the first date do you...............
Willowsway
WillowswayWillowswayNew Hamburg, Ontario Canada8 Threads 251 Posts
I would tell him the truth.
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