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Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 PostsNot trying to draw her out.. she reads what I post.. she will see this...
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To soon to be in love, but there is an interest.. at least on my part..
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Sorry
Your interest in her. Keep it up. That shows you are a man in my book. At least you can say you tried.
Your interest in her. Keep it up. That shows you are a man in my book. At least you can say you tried.
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oh and by the way icase mary didn't point it out ...
she probably doesn't have a mental problem...
i will tell you becareful Daniel, in this site we all are guilty of misreading into was has been written...
maybe she will understand it was more on how it was read than how it was written.
Also with a relationship of this type of online matching it is difficult to build a good solid trust just in the digital.
if she means a lot then see about face to face and then let her see you for who you really are.
it is so difficult to even start a connection on here so i think you have crossed a large hurdle just by doing that thus far.
if it is meant to be then it will happen... Have faith.
she probably doesn't have a mental problem...
i will tell you becareful Daniel, in this site we all are guilty of misreading into was has been written...
maybe she will understand it was more on how it was read than how it was written.
Also with a relationship of this type of online matching it is difficult to build a good solid trust just in the digital.
if she means a lot then see about face to face and then let her see you for who you really are.
it is so difficult to even start a connection on here so i think you have crossed a large hurdle just by doing that thus far.
if it is meant to be then it will happen... Have faith.
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She should already know she can trust me.. I have went out of my way to prove it... even changed my profile.. to simply not looking.. what else can I do?
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I agree
Eric, someone try to say she had a mental problem just because she didn't approve of something he did.
This does not make someone have a mental problem if they don't like something someone did.
Eric, someone try to say she had a mental problem just because she didn't approve of something he did.
This does not make someone have a mental problem if they don't like something someone did.
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Keep trying. Try until you can't try any more.
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I have already been working on meeting her face to face, was waiting for her to decide on saying yes or no.. now I guess it's no... why am I even here anymore? seems like everything I do is wrong and all of this in this thread is for nothing... hell I just don't know what to do anymore.. somebody just shoot me now and put me out of my misery
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take your meds sweetie I'am behind you .
it was an attempt to help ease the situation as to telling Daniel not to take the Blame if he where innocent and she couldn't see it then it was her problem not his.
and i would have said a bit about it had i thought it were just mean spirited...
i had to look at it twice, but it was sound advice in the posters way of writting.
he sometimes comes off harsh but i think he may be on the spot with his thoughts at times.
honestly it was not jabbing at the lady, just a way of saying do not take the blame if you have not done anything to be guilty about.
it was an attempt to help ease the situation as to telling Daniel not to take the Blame if he where innocent and she couldn't see it then it was her problem not his.
and i would have said a bit about it had i thought it were just mean spirited...
i had to look at it twice, but it was sound advice in the posters way of writting.
he sometimes comes off harsh but i think he may be on the spot with his thoughts at times.
honestly it was not jabbing at the lady, just a way of saying do not take the blame if you have not done anything to be guilty about.
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I have a water gun. Will they do?
I know how you feel Daniel. Be strong. I know rejection hurts. Been there done that. Maybe she will come around. I hope. Just let her cool off and try again tomorrow.
I know how you feel Daniel. Be strong. I know rejection hurts. Been there done that. Maybe she will come around. I hope. Just let her cool off and try again tomorrow.
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Yeah I know.
I'm trying to help also.
I hate to see things like this happen.
It's been done to me alot.
I hate to see others go through it.
Ok
Sorry
I'm trying to help also.
I hate to see things like this happen.
It's been done to me alot.
I hate to see others go through it.
Ok
Sorry
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And that may be a problem. You should have waited a few days. Then again, if she's understanding and has genuine feelings for you, then who knows ?
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Is this really how you want to live your life?
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Well if she doesn't understand after this thread.. then all I can say is she was just looking for a way out.. and used what ever she could to get it...
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Try to stay postive Daniel. Don't let the negative take over.
If you are reading this Daniel's lady of interest, please give him another chance if you are really interested in him. We all make mistakes, but we must forgive. Please forgive him. He is sorry and wants to work things out with you. At least give him a chance to chat with you about it before you just give up.
If you are reading this Daniel's lady of interest, please give him another chance if you are really interested in him. We all make mistakes, but we must forgive. Please forgive him. He is sorry and wants to work things out with you. At least give him a chance to chat with you about it before you just give up.
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Daniel,
Can we talk? One thing we all have to keep in mind is the fact that most of us have been hurt, many of us cheated on, and all of us lied to. Sometimes because of things that have happened to us in the past, we can find it hard to trust. Not from anything you have said, but from our own insecurities. Sometimes when we start to really become interested and see someone making any kind of committment to us (like changing your profile), we can get really scared and our feet can get really cold. That doesn't mean by any means that the feelings go away and we won't come back, but letting those walls down and allowing ourselves to trust again can and does make many very vulnerable.
I have been guilty of shying away from situations and jumping to conclusions because that is the way it was in my past and I became programed to expect that to be the way it things would happen. When it doesn't blow up in my face and I see that they are hanging in there for me or with me, it makes a big difference. I don't know this person and I don't know you (except for you postings), for you to have become interested enough to want to be exclusive, then this person must have given you some signs that the feelings were mutual. That doesn't just disappear, so hold tight to your feelings and give it time.
I hope for both of you that it can be taken to the next level so see if things are the same in person.
Linda
Can we talk? One thing we all have to keep in mind is the fact that most of us have been hurt, many of us cheated on, and all of us lied to. Sometimes because of things that have happened to us in the past, we can find it hard to trust. Not from anything you have said, but from our own insecurities. Sometimes when we start to really become interested and see someone making any kind of committment to us (like changing your profile), we can get really scared and our feet can get really cold. That doesn't mean by any means that the feelings go away and we won't come back, but letting those walls down and allowing ourselves to trust again can and does make many very vulnerable.
I have been guilty of shying away from situations and jumping to conclusions because that is the way it was in my past and I became programed to expect that to be the way it things would happen. When it doesn't blow up in my face and I see that they are hanging in there for me or with me, it makes a big difference. I don't know this person and I don't know you (except for you postings), for you to have become interested enough to want to be exclusive, then this person must have given you some signs that the feelings were mutual. That doesn't just disappear, so hold tight to your feelings and give it time.
I hope for both of you that it can be taken to the next level so see if things are the same in person.
Linda
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no need to be sorry for caring and trying to help.
i just didn't want you upset from a misunderstanding of what the intentions were.
you do not need to say I'am sorry for trying to console someone in a time of need.
i think it is wonderful you wanted to be there for daniel.
and i think all the kind words and understanding friends will help him in his thoughts on the subject.
and i still think you are a cutie in a jiggly butt way
i just didn't want you upset from a misunderstanding of what the intentions were.
you do not need to say I'am sorry for trying to console someone in a time of need.
i think it is wonderful you wanted to be there for daniel.
and i think all the kind words and understanding friends will help him in his thoughts on the subject.
and i still think you are a cutie in a jiggly butt way
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Daniel's lady of interest
If you are not interested in him any more, please let him know so that he will quit making a fool out of his self.
Sorry Daniel
If you are not interested in him any more, please let him know so that he will quit making a fool out of his self.
Sorry Daniel
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