Actually Riya, somehow that used to be a good "marker" for me....I would get excited when I pulled into the driveway...knowing the spouse would be there with open arms... A good feeling~
Oh so do I... I don't BECOME a maniac.. No wayyy... if I made a fool of myself.. or I FELT as tho I had.. I would I just run and hide.. I would disappear.
I am similar in that regard to behave like a baby sitter literally for someone i would fall for madly , but it is terrible when you dont have reciprocation.
Assuming its not going to be abusive or mean , in a less drastic break-up i would just retreat quietly.
We need little things in our lives which frankly give us a lot of happiness. Simple things which work even without a mention. A hug, a smile , comforting words , just being there ... simple yet so beautiful.
Life is complex as it is. We could do with a little more of simple care and comfort.
I fall in love on a daily basis.... Arizona women are hot, especialy when it starts getting hotter and the short shorts come out..
But on a more serious side, I have love for everyone, it is my experience that love "feels" so much better and takes so little energy, while hateing, dislikeing one makes me feel ugly inside and takes up so much time and energy.
I often ask people that resent others, "why do you allow that person to take up so much space in your head and give them free rent"?
In the end it's the little things that become the big things I do believe. That unexpected love tap on the backside...a peck on the cheek while you're sleeping, a suprise call at work just to say you're missed... Those are the things I really remember. Not gifts.
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