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Jan 6, 2008 9:22 AM CST True Love ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
All of us have our own perceptions on love. True love, eternal love etc and we have had so many thread on them. But, not often do we see people sacrficing all and even less often do we see people who would treasure the good and let go the bad.

What is true love according to you ??

Do you draw limits or binds you wont cross ? ?

Would you go to the extent of sacrificing all you can ??

Is it practical at all ??

If you did , would you regret ??
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Jan 6, 2008 9:30 AM CST True Love ...
Scottishlass
ScottishlassScottishlassKnoxville, Tennessee USA491 Threads 23 Polls 3,324 Posts
to me true love is unconditional and yes i would make sacrifices, but i would not allow my self to be a doormat either.

to me a true relationship is a 200% thing. both parties each give the other 100% of themselves in order for the relationship to work.

i've heard the "experts" say relationships are a 50/50 thing, but if all you are going to give me is 50% and i put in 100% then i don't think we stand a snowballs chance in hell!!!
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Jan 6, 2008 9:30 AM CST True Love ...
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
True love enraptures the heart and soul...truly.. I remember feeling willing to give up career everything for the one person I fell in love with.. u also love them selflessly and their 'happiness' genuinely means something to u.. also once their imprint is on your heart.. its there to stay!!!.. its a bit like the way u love ur family

In my experience in wasn't 'practical' at all....

And do I regret it.. absolutely not.. its a special feeling experiencing ur heart and soul at their utmost capacity...

Strangely though and perhaps ironically I would be slow to experience it again... if that makes sense confused
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Jan 6, 2008 9:31 AM CST True Love ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
heelloo ladies !!

Yes Aries it makes perfect sense !!
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Jan 6, 2008 9:35 AM CST True Love ...
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
I could expound on this beyond the capacity of this window, but thought I would just relay the first thing that comes to mind.

True love is when you are having a bad day, can close your eyes for a moment and think of that person, and you then quietly know that everything is going to be okay.

cool
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Jan 6, 2008 9:38 AM CST True Love ...
markmeunier
markmeuniermarkmeunierTimmins, Ontario Canada16 Threads 3 Polls 912 Posts
Knowing that no sacrifice would be too great. Seeing both ends of the journey forward and backwards with nary a regret in sight.

Markangel (practicing simplicity.. do not get used to it though had to staple my tongue to my cheek...)
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Jan 6, 2008 9:39 AM CST True Love ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
no words to praise that one !!

flower
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Jan 6, 2008 9:40 AM CST True Love ...
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing hug...
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Jan 6, 2008 9:41 AM CST True Love ...
lolls
lollslollsdublin, Dublin Ireland16 Threads 452 Posts
That is really lovely. Hope I meet someone who i feel that way about
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Jan 6, 2008 9:43 AM CST True Love ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing Thanks Mark !!
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Jan 6, 2008 9:46 AM CST True Love ...
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
When you can't wait to pull into your driveway at the end of the day. (simplistic, but I can remember that)
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Jan 6, 2008 9:47 AM CST True Love ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Helloo Ship !wave

Indy .. Thats cute !!!hug
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Jan 6, 2008 9:59 AM CST True Love ...
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Hellooo my beautiful buddy wave hug

Good questions.

When I DO fall in love with someone, it's not often.. (in fact it's quite rare for me) It takes me a lonnngg time to actually fall in love.

I'm not the kind of person to let those feelings take me over very often. But when I DO tend to fall .. I fall hook line and sinker. (really)

They do become my *everything*.. as I've said somewhere else on here.. I become totally blinded by them.. blinked.. tunnel vision. (yeah I know..it scares ME too! haha)

Where I can't even SEE anyone else but them.

And yeah I would make just about ANY sacrifice for them.. (my children being the only *BUT*) as long as it wasn't something totally illegal or just ridiculous. laugh

But sometimes I think I fall harder than I SHOULD.. Sometimes I think I'm a bit TOO intense for some people.. (They weren't kidding when they said about a Taurean being *Powerhouse of Passion*) haha.. and yes then I Do regret it because I look like a maniac if it's not reciprocated quite so intensely giggle

and yep.. sometimes I regret making stupid sacrifices then realising part way in, I've let my heart lead me.. and made a MASSIVE mistake. I'm waaayy too impulsive for my own good!

But I live and learn. I try nowadays to listen more with my HEAD and my gut instinct..(which are almost ALWAYS right) I no longer ignore them. Actually I was telling someone the other day.. how nowadays I treat my feelings in the same way I do in my job.. where I give my clients (seemingly) my 'all'.. but reeeeally I keep the IMPORTANT stuff back.

Saves me getting hurt.. (when they die) and making mistakes thinking with my heart instead.

I'm a big I'm a softy arsed romantic chomping at the bit really.

giggle
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Jan 6, 2008 9:59 AM CST True Love ...
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
flippin hell!.... trust ME to write the most roll eyes roll eyes roll eyes
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Jan 6, 2008 10:00 AM CST True Love ...
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
I totally agree with you Lass thumbs up hug
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Jan 6, 2008 10:00 AM CST True Love ...
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
hi Blossom! I love everyone of your photos...no wonder my wife left this for an Indian man!!
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Jan 6, 2008 10:01 AM CST True Love ...
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
haha .. and I was juts going to say.. why can't make it concise like that ^

rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 6, 2008 10:03 AM CST True Love ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
smile Thats very kind Ship !!

Not all Indians and not all Indian men are alike as is everywhere.

And i do know you are a nice , caring gentleman !!
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Jan 6, 2008 10:04 AM CST True Love ...
Solitarius
SolitariusSolitariusSalem, Indiana USA5 Threads 589 Posts
I agree with you on this about 95%, Eupho! I just do not become a maniac if it is not returned, I just sink down into a funk that takes a while to get out of.
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Jan 6, 2008 10:04 AM CST True Love ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Sometimes , we dont value what we have ..
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