I was wondering how you can believe someone even if they swear its the truth.Is there any way you can remove those masks ,them walls to know for certain.And I can say this I have been observing on another site I cannot mention,for to do so would get my head cut off.And I see a whole different person than what I see on here.So if someone has the magic decoder button I want one to.Let me hear do u take them on a blind faith or just trust they will tell the truth.
hillbillyhoney: I was wondering how you can believe someone even if they swear its the truth.Is there any way you can remove those masks ,them walls to know for certain.And I can say this I have been observing on another site I cannot mention,for to do so would get my head cut off.And I see a whole different person than what I see on here.So if someone has the magic decoder button I want one to.Let me hear do u take them on a blind faith or just trust they will tell the truth.
You know you can trust what I say honey... We go back a long way..
hillbillyhoney: I was wondering how you can believe someone even if they swear its the truth.Is there any way you can remove those masks ,them walls to know for certain.And I can say this I have been observing on another site I cannot mention,for to do so would get my head cut off.And I see a whole different person than what I see on here.So if someone has the magic decoder button I want one to.Let me hear do u take them on a blind faith or just trust they will tell the truth.
HI MY DEAR SUPER PIO HEART....HOW ARE YOU..?
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kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
hillbillyhoney: I was wondering how you can believe someone even if they swear its the truth.Is there any way you can remove those masks ,them walls to know for certain.And I can say this I have been observing on another site I cannot mention,for to do so would get my head cut off.And I see a whole different person than what I see on here.So if someone has the magic decoder button I want one to.Let me hear do u take them on a blind faith or just trust they will tell the truth.
Well i usually feel it in my heart..it usually never lies..
I never develop trust over the internet. Just ain't gonna happen.
I don't trust someone until I've met them, read their body language, spent time with them, gone through some bad times as well as some good, and consistently seen their words and actions coincide.
It's only through time and experience that trust can build.
I'm not saying that I assume everyone on the internet is a big fat liar, but to actually say "I trust that person and would take them at their word." Nope.. not happening until I've spent REAL time with them.
hillbillyhoney: I was wondering how you can believe someone even if they swear its the truth.Is there any way you can remove those masks ,them walls to know for certain.And I can say this I have been observing on another site I cannot mention,for to do so would get my head cut off.And I see a whole different person than what I see on here.So if someone has the magic decoder button I want one to.Let me hear do u take them on a blind faith or just trust they will tell the truth.
JUST PRESS THIS EASY BUTTON AND IT WILL BE THAT EASY!
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hillbillyhoney: I was wondering how you can believe someone even if they swear its the truth.Is there any way you can remove those masks ,them walls to know for certain.And I can say this I have been observing on another site I cannot mention,for to do so would get my head cut off.And I see a whole different person than what I see on here.So if someone has the magic decoder button I want one to.Let me hear do u take them on a blind faith or just trust they will tell the truth.
Simple ... If your gut is telling you that something doesn't add up, listen to it and walk away ...
People who do that sort of thing are such good manipulators and mind players that to use your energy to "unravel it" you would have to let yourself be drawn in and the trouble is they can also be very charismatic ... so once you're drawn in it's very difficult to walk away ...
girlnextdormouse: I never develop trust over the internet. Just ain't gonna happen.
I don't trust someone until I've met them, read their body language, spent time with them, gone through some bad times as well as some good, and consistently seen their words and actions coincide.
It's only through time and experience that trust can build.
I'm not saying that I assume everyone on the internet is a big fat liar, but to actually say "I trust that person and would take them at their word." Nope.. not happening until I've spent REAL time with them.
But what is the differenting factor here,why would they not be the same real as online?And do you think online is just a rehersal preparing us for the real?
hillbillyhoney: But what is the differenting factor here,why would they not be the same real as online?And do you think online is just a rehersal preparing us for the real?
The ones who are manipulative and mind players ARE NOT the same online as they are once you start to know them better and defo not same as real life ...
hillbillyhoney: yes we do go back a long way,its some on here who hide behind their masks,while smiling to our face.And I trust you with my life you know that.
Trusting someone one the internet is a tricky, thin, thin, thin gray line... Fortunately for us we have instinct. And I know when someone is trying to BS me. Just be careful (as I am sure you already are) and you'll be fine
" But what is the differenting factor here,why would they not be the same real as online?And do you think online is just a rehersal preparing us for the real?"
Most people can't handle rejection so they develop a face of lies in order to please those around them. Even their faces online are the same. If everyone got so well along with others then why do they need to come on here to make new friends? Lies, and insecurity is what most people will show online only because they are scared most people won't like them........me on the other hand don't look for real relationships online, just to waste some time when I'm bored.....which is why I can speak my mind without any worries what any of you think of me.
hillbillyhoney: But what is the differenting factor here,why would they not be the same real as online?And do you think online is just a rehersal preparing us for the real?
I don't think anyone is the same in real life as they are on the internet. They simply CAN'T be because the internet only gives us a very tiny snip of a person. I have no clue what's going through someone's mind when they decide to use this emoticon ----> instead of this one ----->
I have no idea how they sound when they "LOL" or how their eyes light up when they "LMAO"
In fact, I'd venture to guess that a lot of people who use their fingers to type "LOL" aren't really 'laughing out loud' at all. They are probably sitting at their desk with a blank expression just typing the letters.
I don't know how they react when they are interupted. I don't know how they respond when they are smiled at.
Really, when it comes down to it, on the internet we can only learn 2 things from a person: 1. What they want to tell us, and 2. How well they type.
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