What do you women want in a man?? (50)
Here's mine from my profile...
If you're ready for a relationship then are you the type who knows how to communicate, and keep your priorities straight? Can you be serious when needed, playful when needed (and know the difference). Can you be protective without being condesending? It'd be great if you like to stay active & want a partner. Knowing how to two-step (or willing to learn) would be a big plus (but not absolutely necessary). It'd also be nice if you could be someone who's on my side when I'm trying to catch one of life's curve balls, be there through whatever. Maybe even who know how to fix "it", or at least be patient while we try to figure it out together.
Physical attraction (both ways) is a must, so guys, please have a photo published or be willing to send one. I tend to like for the guy to be in control of the physical side of our relationship, but once in awhile I like to get things started. Can you handle that?
And adding, that it's necessary for him to be a non-smoker, only drink occassionally (since I don't at all), and not do drugs.
Sometimes I think I'm asking for too much....but I don't want to end up with what I had before...lol
If you're ready for a relationship then are you the type who knows how to communicate, and keep your priorities straight? Can you be serious when needed, playful when needed (and know the difference). Can you be protective without being condesending? It'd be great if you like to stay active & want a partner. Knowing how to two-step (or willing to learn) would be a big plus (but not absolutely necessary). It'd also be nice if you could be someone who's on my side when I'm trying to catch one of life's curve balls, be there through whatever. Maybe even who know how to fix "it", or at least be patient while we try to figure it out together.
Physical attraction (both ways) is a must, so guys, please have a photo published or be willing to send one. I tend to like for the guy to be in control of the physical side of our relationship, but once in awhile I like to get things started. Can you handle that?
And adding, that it's necessary for him to be a non-smoker, only drink occassionally (since I don't at all), and not do drugs.
Sometimes I think I'm asking for too much....but I don't want to end up with what I had before...lol
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Trustworthyness,tenderness,humor,average intelligence,ability to fixhousehold things,Christian,outgoing,courteous,animal lover,willing to try volunteer work with me at least once.Appreciation for the way I treat him,a huuger who loves evryone,not predijuce aganist anyone,a family,large italian one and we'd have cook outs and get togethers,good communication sikills,gentleman a must, not an arguer,sits down talks things out,willing to lend others a hand,alittle money put away,a hot uninhibited husband.I could go on but that's really all I ask,simple.
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Claayer: lmao @ puts out..
Yeaaaah
Think I just might move to the UKYeaaaah
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I want someone who fits.
(Not what you're thinking).
I have met men who I am mentally and physically drawn to and who have felt the same towards me. I would have loved to have been able to expand on the feelings and the connection, but there was something standing in the way that made them not a good fit for me, and vice-versa. Distance, perhaps. Age, maybe. I have a tremendous relationship with a man here who is in his early 30s. We are great friends, but there is a small element of sadness in that we both feel that we would be wonderful together if not for the age difference. Some might say to forget about that, but I can't and won't. For one thing, he still wants children...and that's just ONE thing. So, we don't fit together as a couple. But we love each other as friends, and I'm grateful for that.
A good match for me...what I want....is a man close to my age who is intelligent, witty, loves to laugh, is secure in himself but not cocky or arrogant, who loves to travel, enjoys simple pleasures in life, is financially responsible (doesn't have to be wealthy, just responsible), attracts me physically (from wherever it stems). I am more typically drawn to average-looking men rather than the really great-looking guys. The better looking they are, the more they seem to know it and I find conceit to be a big turn-off (as is true with women, I think). I want someone who will love me as much as I will love him and who will not have to tell me this every day, for it will be apparent in his actions and in the way he looks at me. Ahhhhhhhhh. Sigh. I want a male version of me. Average looks, big heart, love of life, fairly intelligent, wanting to give so much more than to take. And wanting... demanding... monogamy.
(Not what you're thinking).
I have met men who I am mentally and physically drawn to and who have felt the same towards me. I would have loved to have been able to expand on the feelings and the connection, but there was something standing in the way that made them not a good fit for me, and vice-versa. Distance, perhaps. Age, maybe. I have a tremendous relationship with a man here who is in his early 30s. We are great friends, but there is a small element of sadness in that we both feel that we would be wonderful together if not for the age difference. Some might say to forget about that, but I can't and won't. For one thing, he still wants children...and that's just ONE thing. So, we don't fit together as a couple. But we love each other as friends, and I'm grateful for that.
A good match for me...what I want....is a man close to my age who is intelligent, witty, loves to laugh, is secure in himself but not cocky or arrogant, who loves to travel, enjoys simple pleasures in life, is financially responsible (doesn't have to be wealthy, just responsible), attracts me physically (from wherever it stems). I am more typically drawn to average-looking men rather than the really great-looking guys. The better looking they are, the more they seem to know it and I find conceit to be a big turn-off (as is true with women, I think). I want someone who will love me as much as I will love him and who will not have to tell me this every day, for it will be apparent in his actions and in the way he looks at me. Ahhhhhhhhh. Sigh. I want a male version of me. Average looks, big heart, love of life, fairly intelligent, wanting to give so much more than to take. And wanting... demanding... monogamy.
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jlb ... thats a great post !! 
I am looking for basic manners , decency , ability to respect a lady for being one and not as something you posess or would want to ..
Ahh .. present times.. thats a lot to start with..
Besides , i am in admiration of men very rarely .. i mean as the person i would consider and for my great luck usually , ermm .. they are too old , married , taken or thinking about someone.
I am looking for basic manners , decency , ability to respect a lady for being one and not as something you posess or would want to ..
Ahh .. present times.. thats a lot to start with..
Besides , i am in admiration of men very rarely .. i mean as the person i would consider and for my great luck usually , ermm .. they are too old , married , taken or thinking about someone.
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Hi, Riya...
And you definitely deserve the best...to be the only woman that he thinks of (whoever he ultimately turns out to be).
And you definitely deserve the best...to be the only woman that he thinks of (whoever he ultimately turns out to be).
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Larrym442: Here i am again people, One question, that should be easy for you women out there What do you women want in a man.?? Before and after you meet him.? And lets be honest on this one ladys.
I want a man to be honest, sincere and faithful ... if he can be those things it will be a good start.
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Here we go again...........
All together now...............
SIZE MATTERS.............
All together now...............
SIZE MATTERS.............
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maruska1980: All the best... Good Luck!
I also thought I've found him for the past 6 yrs... turned out to be a liar like the rest I had before him!!!
Sorry to hear thatI also thought I've found him for the past 6 yrs... turned out to be a liar like the rest I had before him!!!
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