crazedangel89VIRGINIA BEACH, Virginia USA441 posts
Zeloniy: Just look without really looking. Save your emotions for one that deserves it. Love and hate. For now just have fun and enjoy being single. It won't last.
I am so sorry that you have had to go thru this, it will take you a while but you will, move on, just remember this you have beautiful kids and they need you to set an example, they are watching you even ifyou dont know it, and they will foever remember how you handled this situation, and yes there are some great ones of us out there, who have been where you are....and I have I was 6 months pregnant with a high risk pregnancy when I found out he had gotten a coworker knocked up.... I took him back once but not the second time he got caught....Once bitten twice shy
cowgirl_2008: I am so sorry that you have had to go thru this, it will take you a while but you will, move on, just remember this you have beautiful kids and they need you to set an example, they are watching you even ifyou dont know it, and they will foever remember how you handled this situation, and yes there are some great ones of us out there, who have been where you are....and I have I was 6 months pregnant with a high risk pregnancy when I found out he had gotten a coworker knocked up.... I took him back once but not the second time he got caught....Once bitten twice shyhope this helps
Cowgirl_2008
Wow hun I do sympothize with you, while you are prego that is crazy! Yeah this helps, everyone one here is really cool, I love this site now! It seems most have great advice and all have really helped me thus far. Thanks again
twindaddy: I would like to know if anyone could tell me where I could find a decent woman. I am so sick of these stupid games some try and play. Any advice I will take it. Thank you.
OK, so have you found her?? she found you yet?? looked like there were even some right in the thread if I remember corectly,,,whats a story?? GP
diogenes: There are decent women out there. Really, there are, I promise. Some of them are like Angels walking the Earth, the kind that Heaven sends, the kind that will love you and be your best friend. They are like a song written by the hand of God. They can fly because they take themselves lightly.
Still, finding your one true love can seem like looking for something that does not exist. This is because love is less about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's less about how much love you have at first sight, and more about how much love you can build to the end.
If you want to bring out the best in a woman, you have to be all man for her. I don't mean alpha male, nor the macho stereotype. Being a man is about personal power. This is a power that comes from within rather than, having power over someone.
Women are attracted to confidence. Honesty is one of the surest signs of confidence. You must be honest with yourself, true to yourself. Be in control of your own state at all times. This is how to be in control without being controlling.
Love women. Believe in women. Let them fascinate you. Adore everything that defines them as women. If your greatest pleasure is pleasing her, if you believe that and feel good to say it, you are on the right track. If not, then it is time to be honest with yourself about what your true motivations are.
You must have your own identity, and you cannot be defined by women. You must not need women. You must want them. You must understand that they need to be wanted. You must be decisive. You must know what you want. If you don't know what you want, you probably will not get it. You will most likely end up with something you don't want.
Be in control of yourself. Rely on yourself. Accept that everything that happens to you is your own doing. Be personally powerful. Do not try to be personally powerful. Do not act personally powerful. BE personally powerful. Be genuine. Command respect. Know exactly what you want, and you will have it.
wfriars: The decent girls are here. And we're looking for the bad boys, the boys who break are hearts, who unknowingly warp our minds.
There are decent girls...we think we want nice boys, but nice boys aren't a challenge.
So the question would be...
Are you a nice boy or a bad boy?
I have to respectfully disagree.. particularly when you go over age 25... altough some girls do, due to there nurturing nature try to 'fix' a guy... which can be a recipe for disaster...
Aries01: I have to respectfully disagree.. particularly when you go over age 25... altough some girls do, due to there nurturing nature try to 'fix' a guy... which can be a recipe for disaster...
Agree with you there, particularly with regard to age
Aries01: I have to respectfully disagree.. particularly when you go over age 25... altough some girls do, due to there nurturing nature try to 'fix' a guy... which can be a recipe for disaster...
I agree!! NO woman will ever take my fishin poles!
constanza: also if she has too many pretty pictures in various poses that would make me question her decency, seriously,....don't laugh...ok? also dames who are here for the forums only yet you keep on seeing pictures coming and going ...what for...?
I am a) over 30, b) have never been married c) have no children... and although I am educated and have a career.. I am on the forums....JUST FOR THE FORUMS... does that make me indecent??... I am truly bewildered how u can come up with these kind of far fetched conclusions.. .. I am sure there are lots like me who enjoy discussing topics of general interest with an interesting and intelligent cross section of society.. I know I do...
And as for still keeping pictures up and saying that one is here for the forums.. why not??? I have made it clear to anyone who has displayed any interest in me...that I am not on the market.. and anyone I don't recognise as a friend from here I just delete without reading the messages.. or respond with my position (if displaying interest.. though mostly is just friendly banter)...
I am sure u didn't mean what u said in a bad way.. but the amount of individuals on this site who have been pointed out by you as potentially 'indecent' as a consequence.. I am sure are not particularly pleased with such a baseless judgment
Aries01: I am a) over 30, b) have never been married c) have no children... and although I am educated and have a career.. I am on the forums....JUST FOR THE FORUMS... does that make me indecent??... I am truly bewildered how u can come up with these kind of far fetched conclusions.. .. I am sure there are lots like me who enjoy discussing topics of general interest with an interesting and intelligent cross section of society.. I know I do...
And as for still keeping pictures up and saying that one is here for the forums.. why not??? I have made it clear to anyone who has displayed any interest in me...that I am not on the market.. and anyone I don't recognise as a friend from here I just delete without reading the messages.. or respond with my position (if displaying interest.. though mostly is just friendly banter)...
I am sure u didn't mean what u said in a bad way.. but the amount of individuals on this site who have been pointed out by you as potentially 'indecent' as a consequence.. I am sure are not particularly pleased with such a baseless judgment
Aries, you can marry me....then you will be legit!
(I'm available most evenings and at lunchtime by appointment)
Aries01: I am a) over 30, b) have never been married c) have no children... and although I am educated and have a career.. I am on the forums....JUST FOR THE FORUMS... does that make me indecent??... I am truly bewildered how u can come up with these kind of far fetched conclusions.. .. I am sure there are lots like me who enjoy discussing topics of general interest with an interesting and intelligent cross section of society.. I know I do...
And as for still keeping pictures up and saying that one is here for the forums.. why not??? I have made it clear to anyone who has displayed any interest in me...that I am not on the market.. and anyone I don't recognise as a friend from here I just delete without reading the messages.. or respond with my position (if displaying interest.. though mostly is just friendly banter)... I am sure u didn't mean what u said in a bad way.. but the amount of individuals on this site who have been pointed out by you as potentially 'indecent' as a consequence.. I am sure are not particularly pleased with such a baseless judgment
I agree Aries !!!
I dont understand why we have to go thro' it time and again though.
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I like an man that can man-handle me.