Craving Solitude! (27)
I call myself a "social loner". I like company and also like being alone. Paws
------ This thread is Archived ------
After 8 months of being surrounded by mother and my pouty ex, hell yeah I wanted solitude! There are days now where I prefer to be alone...even though i spend that alone time on my Mac...hmmm....but it makes me most happy when I'm walking around Vienna with just my dog.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Antsy, may I ask why you prefer solitude ? Any particular reason ? Paws
------ This thread is Archived ------
I dont know really - Its just how I am! I started this thread in the hope that there are others like me and maybe I could figure it out!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Antsy, your career keeps you associated with many people at one time. Do you feel OK with that or do you see it as a necessity ? Paws
------ This thread is Archived ------
I love what I do and I love to help people and teach people how to train properly so no it doesnt bother me - its more a case of the people around me - friends and family who love me wondering why I prefer my solitude. Yhey know what I am like and dont take it personally but I see everyone else I know craving company and not being happy with their own company 24/7 and I know Im not like everyone else in that respect but sometimes I wonder if I have a heart or the same feelings about spending time with others as my loved ones - if that makes any sense!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Being alone is one of the highest goals in most eastern religions. It's the only route to one's true self. You may just be a more highly evolved person. Now whether you're happy that way may be another story. Paws
------ This thread is Archived ------
I think that the reason that I enjoy solitude is that I grew up as an only child. Being alone and finding ways to amuse myself became normal to me.
I love to entertain...parties..houseguests....
But I'm best when I get some apart time.
I love to entertain...parties..houseguests....
But I'm best when I get some apart time.
------ This thread is Archived ------
I am happy about it - its just others that have a problem with it! ;-)
------ This thread is Archived ------
Were you premature, cause their is a study about premature grownups and their habbits.
------ This thread is Archived ------
I love being by myself. It took me years to get there. To me it shows that a person is comfortable with themselfs.
I love company, being around my friends but I soooooo love my own space.
I love company, being around my friends but I soooooo love my own space.
------ This thread is Archived ------
I will add that the want to be alone is one of the studies amung premature adults
------ This thread is Archived ------
Then that's their problem. You're not a product nor a commodity. They want you, they like and love you. I can see why. The more distant or unavailable you are to them, the more they'll seek you out or label you as something that can satisfy their needs. Paws
------ This thread is Archived ------
Nope not premature - I was born blue with the cord wrapped around my neck though! haha!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Definitely. More and more, I prefer to be onmy own a great deal of the time. However, the desire, or even need, for contact is felt. Isn't that why we're here, to a degree? And intimate contact would be nice, if it didn't eventually infringe too much on the solitude.
Good question.
Good question.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dbert, in a universal way, yes that's likely the healthiest way to go. We humans crave as children do. We haven't grown up yet, no matter what our age. On a deeper level we may all be together, just have to learn how to tune in. Think that's were "soul-mate", came from. A universe of fragmented souls attempting to re-unite. Paws
------ This thread is Archived ------
Im here on for the forums to chat to people who make me laugh - coz Im on my own when I do it! How sad is that?
------ This thread is Archived ------
I'd love to spend time alone with you. I mean that in an inquisitive way. You are a very interesting person. Most of us on here are alone, when we laugh, cry, whatever. How sad is that ? Well that's up to each one of us to feel and decide. I'm here for the company, the strokes and compliments. We all need that. Alone or not. You may need it less, but it still feels good when you experience it. You are intelligent, witty, beautiful and charming. Be proud, be yourself and we may learn from your honesty. Paws
------ This thread is Archived ------
Yup..and, being aquarius is a part of it...
I do want intimacy, and more...but, being alone is a must for me at the same time...
Antz, I understand that alot.
Love helping, and peole. But, am a loner.
If I could have an ideal? A relationship that has trust, and respect for who we each are, and love...
I wander off sometimes...lol. Just get absorbed inwhat I'm doing...
I do want intimacy, and more...but, being alone is a must for me at the same time...
Antz, I understand that alot.
Love helping, and peole. But, am a loner.
If I could have an ideal? A relationship that has trust, and respect for who we each are, and love...
I wander off sometimes...lol. Just get absorbed inwhat I'm doing...
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
Unions support Democrats!
the way you look
Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
The weird and the random facts around the world
The Best of the GOP
Ladies
Would you hire this guy - for any job?
More Proof The GOP is a Criminal Organization
Happy Birthday MysteriousGirl80
Feel Good Music
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Stats for this Thread
1,771 Views
26 Comments
in CS Lounge
Created: Apr 2006
Last Viewed: Apr 7
Last Commented: Apr 2006
0 Likes
Related Forums
- Unions support Democrats!
- the way you look
- Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
- The weird and the random facts around the world
- The Best of the GOP
- Ladies
- Would you hire this guy - for any job?
- More Proof The GOP is a Criminal Organization
- Happy Birthday MysteriousGirl80
- Feel Good Music
Is anyone else like me??
For once this is a serious thread! LOL!