soo true in my case....my son is half black,,and my last 4 long term relationships have been with African men..
Ive dated few Caucasian men and they bore me,,im only interested in African men...
Music, culture, art, food, colour, beauty, accent, values,and how they treat their women..i find truly amazing.. maybe im just being closed minded..but i dont think so.
So my question is..
Does anyone else believe that your colour on the outside doesnt match the colour on the inside? Like,maybe,i shouldve been born somewhere else?
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
reddygirl: Does anyone else believe that your colour on the outside doesnt match the colour on the inside? Like,maybe,i shouldve been born somewhere else?
I don't think the color on the outside has a d@mn thing to do with anything. We aren't black or white or tan or purple on the inside, we're all red.
reddygirl: Does anyone else believe that your colour on the outside doesnt match the colour on the inside? Like,maybe,i shouldve been born somewhere else?
No I'm pretty happy with my culture and embrace others.
sxc666: No I'm pretty happy with my culture and embrace others.
i like that..but..i feel its more than that...ive traveled north,east south ,west..and stayed in spain..becuz of the many african ppl ive met here...canada has no culture ...many races..but the culture is gone
alabamabebe: Ok, maybe in Spain black and white have different values, here we all work and breathe and live pretty much the same.
umm..no u dont..african eat different,,so do chinese..there are china towns..chinese ..african ,,east indian specialty shops..all americans have the same rights,,but u dont live the same at all
gentlepaws: That is quite a generalization. A black Somalian will be very different from a black from Chicago or East LA.
The nigerian man ive met recently...is the same as the father of my son(who imet in L.A.)..in how he treats me..cares for his ppl..and really the same food,,taiste in music..and ive met blacks here in spain who have spent time in the us..most black ppl no matter where they are from have the same values..their culture never leaves them..i love that
reddygirl: soo true in my case....my son is half black,,and my last 4 long term relationships have been with African men..
Ive dated few Caucasian men and they bore me,,im only interested in African men...
Music, culture, art, food, colour, beauty, accent, values,and how they treat their women..i find truly amazing.. maybe im just being closed minded..but i dont think so.
So my question is..
Does anyone else believe that your colour on the outside doesnt match the colour on the inside? Like,maybe,i shouldve been born somewhere else?
alabamabebe: Ok, maybe in Spain black and white have different values, here we all work and breathe and live pretty much the same.
Naa u dont..ive spent time with my ex from crenshaw..in crenshaw..and no they live totally different from ppl in the suburbs...they work..yes ..they breathe ..yes,,but they also look after each other..in the suburbs..where i am from ..we could care a less what happens to our neighbour
reddygirl: The nigerian man ive met recently...is the same as the father of my son(who imet in L.A.)..in how he treats me..cares for his ppl..and really the same food,,taiste in music..and ive met blacks here in spain who have spent time in the us..most black ppl no matter where they are from have the same values..their culture never leaves them..i love that
Yes, i agree, we do have quite a lot of similarities and it's not only the skin.
reddygirl: umm..no u dont..african eat different,,so do chinese..there are china towns..chinese ..african ,,east indian specialty shops..all americans have the same rights,,but u dont live the same at all
Open your eyes.....America has no specific culture. "Melting Pot" Duh.....each community lives as close to their origional culture as possible.
No one in america is indiginous......except the native indians. but their cultures have remained the same. American Africans here grasp on to cultures they have no clue as to their origins....Same goes with the american chinese, American Italian...and so on....
j_goose: Open your eyes.....America has no specific culture. "Melting Pot" Duh.....each community lives as close to their origional culture as possible.No one in america is indiginous......except the native indians. but their cultures have remained the same. American Africans here grasp on to cultures they have no clue as to their origins....Same goes with the american chinese, American Italian...and so on....
excactly..but also if an african man dates a chinese women...whos culture do u think they will follow..the asian...i think not!!
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Ive dated few Caucasian men and they bore me,,im only interested in African men...
Music, culture, art, food, colour, beauty, accent, values,and how they treat their women..i find truly amazing..
maybe im just being closed minded..but i dont think so.
So my question is..
Does anyone else believe that your colour on the outside doesnt match the colour on the inside? Like,maybe,i shouldve been born somewhere else?