why do woman post if they dont reply ( Archived) (62)

Actually pheonix that is also correct, I thought that stupidly with a guy that posted me yesterday. I wont go into too much detail on this one, if you don't mind.

Ann-Marie

The world doesn't serve you well, Phoenix. You know there are some lonely compatible people in Boise for friendship or whatever, but your chances of finding them are low. That doesn't seem fair, to me. Why
doesn't the world provide quick ways of hooking you up with them, even if just for coffee and conversation?
There are fake ways, of course, come ons, but nothing that really works for them and for you. Sad.

dpw

correction i am in boise for 48 hours.LL187 it is my job to stay out here to make sure the people of this country have everything from fuel to food.So when you all receive a note,reply befor you make a judgement as it could be something different

I would also like to clarify that it is NOT just woman who do not reply, I personally have rec'd a total of 5 emails from different men and have replied to each one. However, I have sent out just as many and they ALL went unanswered. So you see eagle it is not just woman who post and do not reply it is men as well. I think everyone should take a class in good manners to learn that a simple "thank you for your email",or "not interested in a relationship",or "sorry I do not think we are capatible" reply would go a long way in improving the relationships between men and woman. PS in my last post on this subject I said,"those of us" I was referring to woman in general and not me personally I always send a reply.

I agree. I think people should take a min or two and reply to emails. However, it doesn't bother me too much if i don't hear back. I don't take it personally. I've sent my fair share of emails and have gotten some back but i haven't met anyone i care to talk to offline. Doesn't mean i won't but it's ok either way. I still think it's fun and u never know who's waitin for u around the corner.

I am just astounded now to have actually gotten into
a long e-mail conversation with a woman almost my own age, who writes very intelligently, is clearly well-educated, makes a lot of sense, and sent me a lovely photograph. Of course she lives half-way across the world away in India, but that's a mere detail. This was on another site, by the way. I have subscribed to several, to increase my odds. I think thats a good
idea, and would recommend it. ...... It began as a research project for
me.
dpw

Well said & I agree with you 100%. I think people are becoming very selfish & dont care about anyone else but themselves & their interests. It doesnt take much to be polite & treating others like you would yourself.

Most women have been very respectful, and if they weren't interested, they replied with a simple paragraph or two. Where I live on an island, I realize that finding a compatible match is difficult simply due to distance constraints. And then there are women who are simply "not interested", and that's ok with me, because for every door that closes another one opens! As for women who simply do not reply, I say it's really their loss. Like everyone else on the market here, we all have something different to offer, and when someone doesn't even take the time to reply, I ask myself, "What am I really missing out on?" It is also noteworthy ladies and gentlemen, what comes around goes around...if a woman/man EMails you, it is just as important for you to reply to them as it is for them to EMail you! Just remember what it feels like when your EMails go without responses...

I have had my share of 'no reply' from men. It does not bother me in the least. I take it as a sign that a friendship was not meant to be. And, some of the people that I have answered have been rude. Gosh, I even had one that would not talk to me because I went to a different kind of church. And let me tell you looks are not everything either. I actually went and met one of the men I had made friends with, very nice looking and made all that money that some of those other women are looking for, but what a SNOB. Bless his little heart, I hope he does not drown in one of our west texas storms. LOL Hmmmmmmm....It really does take all kinds in this world and not everyone is interested in just friends. So take heart, it is their lose, not yours.
Eagle151 my suggestion is to forget them and don't sweat the small stuff. Life is just too short to waste the energy on wondering why.
larou

I can see why people get frustrated when they don't get a reply, but I wouldn't know that cause I haven't got one yet!!!