Dating Mistakes ( Archived) (60)

Apr 4, 2008 7:50 PM CST Dating Mistakes
SmartisSexy
SmartisSexySmartisSexyMedina, Ohio USA1 Threads 103 Posts
drivenbysound: High maintenance? Center of attention?

Run for the hills..


You say that now...but I'm really fun! Come to my spider web....
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Apr 4, 2008 7:51 PM CST Dating Mistakes
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
Detente: Sorry...I forgot there's just one person in our relationship.


rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 4, 2008 7:58 PM CST Dating Mistakes
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
drivenbysound: Did someone mention driven?

Do two type A's make a type B?



That's an E minus. drinking
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Apr 4, 2008 7:59 PM CST Dating Mistakes
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
lusciousmile: That's an E minus.


rolling on the floor laughing

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Apr 4, 2008 8:01 PM CST Dating Mistakes
SmartisSexy
SmartisSexySmartisSexyMedina, Ohio USA1 Threads 103 Posts
drivenbysound: Did someone mention driven?

Do two type A's make a type B?


Ok...the glass of wine has gone to my head tonight...
DRIVEN...got it. Wow, maybe I should just go to sleep. I was thinking something entirely different.
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Apr 4, 2008 8:01 PM CST Dating Mistakes
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
drivenbysound: Haha..you ladies are good in bed too, it seems.



Thanks sir, but, tmi


How dare you! We have brains too! scold


crying
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Apr 4, 2008 8:04 PM CST Dating Mistakes
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
lusciousmile: Thanks sir, but, How dare you! We have brains too!


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Apr 4, 2008 8:09 PM CST Dating Mistakes
SmartisSexy
SmartisSexySmartisSexyMedina, Ohio USA1 Threads 103 Posts
drivenbysound: Yes, I'm listening.


See honey...you're stepping into the web now....I told you I was fun!

Admit it, you need a difficult, high-maintenance, center-of-attention type of girl. It's just like ice cream.kiss
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Apr 4, 2008 8:09 PM CST Dating Mistakes
SmartisSexy
SmartisSexySmartisSexyMedina, Ohio USA1 Threads 103 Posts
Aries01: Yeah... that is just unatural!!!!.....


It is...men should run from the very idea!
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Apr 4, 2008 8:12 PM CST Dating Mistakes
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
lusciousmile: That 'wanting kids' bit, is on profiles too. I don't think it's inappropriate to ask at any stage of the relationship/friendship, of intentions of making a family, in future ( be it with me or someone else...lol). When a woman asks, doesn't necessarily mean she wants to have a baby, in a 'still fresh' relationship.
But, i guess you meant something more serious, like; "take off your clothes and let's make one now ?

I personally want to know ( from the word go), if a man intends to have a family (someday). If he doesn't, then i'm
I can be sure that, if it works out someday, i'm only required to talk him into taking me out dancing, not having kids.


Yeah I think it is only fair to be upfront about these things...fundamental things... I don't think it should be a big 'issue' in the early stages though.. it only really becomes an issue if the relationship moves onto the next stage.. the dating stage should be just about fun and getting to know one another I reckon.. U don't really even know what you want initially.... in terms of future with a person.. mixed signals is also a definite no no!!!

Hiya Lusc

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Apr 4, 2008 8:15 PM CST Dating Mistakes
SmartisSexy
SmartisSexySmartisSexyMedina, Ohio USA1 Threads 103 Posts
drivenbysound: Running for his life..


Didn't you say that before?? And yet, you're still here having fun. It's addictive. You don't have to admit it, it's ok. You don't have a problem, you don't have to go to a meeting....stay here and play. Make another post....lips
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Apr 4, 2008 8:15 PM CST Dating Mistakes
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Aries01: Yeah I think it is only fair to be upfront about these things...fundamental things... I don't think it should be a big 'issue' in the early stages though.. it only really becomes an issue if the relationship moves onto the next stage.. the dating stage should be just about fun and getting to know one another I reckon.. U don't really even know what you want initially.... in terms of future with a person.. mixed signals is also a definite no no!!!
Hiya Lusc


Hi girl. hug

I agree. Honesty in general, shouldn't bother either parties.


wine
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Apr 4, 2008 8:17 PM CST Dating Mistakes
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
Aries01: Yeah I think it is only fair to be upfront about these things...fundamental things... I don't think it should be a big 'issue' in the early stages though.. it only really becomes an issue if the relationship moves onto the next stage.. the dating stage should be just about fun and getting to know one another I reckon.. U don't really even know what you want initially.... in terms of future with a person.. mixed signals is also a definite no no!!!

Hiya Lusc


I reckon?

Are you sure you're not from Arkansas? wink
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Apr 4, 2008 8:20 PM CST Dating Mistakes
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
Aries01: Yeah I think it is only fair to be upfront about these things...fundamental things... I don't think it should be a big 'issue' in the early stages though.. it only really becomes an issue if the relationship moves onto the next stage.. the dating stage should be just about fun and getting to know one another I reckon.. U don't really even know what you want initially.... in terms of future with a person.. mixed signals is also a definite no no!!!

Hiya Lusc
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Spot on.

I faced a situation were a girl said she was prepared to compromise. So I thought, ok, sounds reasonable.

Turned out her compromise was to wait a couple of years.uh oh

Biological clock and all....late 30's you see.

Well, I understood and saw no future. Happy for her to find her happiness with somebody like minded in that department.

I thought that was reasonable.drinking
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Apr 4, 2008 8:20 PM CST Dating Mistakes
SmartisSexy
SmartisSexySmartisSexyMedina, Ohio USA1 Threads 103 Posts
drivenbysound: It seems I'm a gluten for punishment.


It's ok baby, I won't hurt you....unless you beg....
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Apr 4, 2008 8:21 PM CST Dating Mistakes
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
lusciousmile: Hi girl.

I agree. Honesty in general, shouldn't bother either parties.


Absolutely!!!... 'honesty' as in the true interpretation of the word is vital wine

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Apr 4, 2008 8:21 PM CST Dating Mistakes
SmartisSexy
SmartisSexySmartisSexyMedina, Ohio USA1 Threads 103 Posts
Detente: Spot on.

I faced a situation were a girl said she was prepared to compromise . So I thought, ok, sounds reasonable.

Turned out her compromise was to wait a couple of years.

Biological clock and all....late 30's you see.

Well, I understood and saw no future. Happy for her to find her happiness with somebody like minded in that department.

I thought that was reasonable.



This was all before the appetizer was served?? I would have run too!!

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Apr 4, 2008 8:22 PM CST Dating Mistakes
SmartisSexy
SmartisSexySmartisSexyMedina, Ohio USA1 Threads 103 Posts
drivenbysound: Still waiting to hear what you were thinking.


Way too wicked for a PG rated web site....I won't ever fall asleep tonight if I let my mind wander down THAT road.....
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Apr 4, 2008 8:28 PM CST Dating Mistakes
SmartisSexy
SmartisSexySmartisSexyMedina, Ohio USA1 Threads 103 Posts
drivenbysound: But you see, I'm usually the one to dish out the discipline when you've been a bad girl.


You do know you are stuck in the web, right?? And I'm never bad...I'm always very, very good.
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Apr 4, 2008 8:31 PM CST Dating Mistakes
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
Detente: Spot on.

I faced a situation were a girl said she was prepared to compromise . So I thought, ok, sounds reasonable.

Turned out her compromise was to wait a couple of years.

Biological clock and all....late 30's you see.

Well, I understood and saw no future. Happy for her to find her happiness with somebody like minded in that department.

I thought that was reasonable.


Interesting... hmmm did this girl mislead initially? ... or was this something you knew about this person from the outset and proceeded regardless.... or was it a complete secret that did not emerge until some time later..

Also from my understanding of women(of which I am one) it isn't actually something they WOULD be prepared to compromise on really...they either want them.. or they don't...confused Are you sure this person was clear on what ur views were.. were you consistent in the messages you were giving her for example...
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