How forget? ( Archived) (34)

Apr 18, 2008 7:27 AM CST How forget?
lavender84
lavender84lavender84S. Venera, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 168 Posts
Sometimes i think that one of my worst part is that i cannot forget person. I am not able to remove a person from my mind if this person gave me beautiful moments. There is nothing wrong in keep on remembering special moments shared with someone but sometimes if u continue to think u start hurting yourself. Some person are able to say "Ok, it`s over. Now i forget everything" but me no, i was never like this. I always try to forget but then for a small thing i start thinking again. How can i remove everything? How u can delete something that gave u a lot? How can i become stronger? I was always like this since i was a young girl. How u can remove the feeling of peace and quiet that u felt? I never had regrets in my life and i know that everything passes, for example i suffered a lot for my ex boyfriend but now i`m really good and i don`t suffer at all... but the point is: how can i forget? It happens to some of u or never?
Ps: sorry for my english!
Ps2: i hope i explained everything good! uh oh uh oh
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Apr 18, 2008 7:29 AM CST How forget?
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
lavender84: Sometimes i think that one of my worst part is that i cannot forget person. I am not able to remove a person from my mind if this person gave me beautiful moments. There is nothing wrong in keep on remembering special moments shared with someone but sometimes if u continue to think u start hurting yourself. Some person are able to say "Ok, it`s over. Now i forget everything" but me no, i was never like this. I always try to forget but then for a small thing i start thinking again. How can i remove everything? How u can delete something that gave u a lot? How can i become stronger? I was always like this since i was a young girl. How u can remove the feeling of peace and quiet that u felt? I never had regrets in my life and i know that everything passes, for example i suffered a lot for my ex boyfriend but now i`m really good and i don`t suffer at all... but the point is: how can i forget? It happens to some of u or never?
Ps: sorry for my english!
Ps2: i hope i explained everything good!




comfort you never forget, they become a small part of you...it's called memories, and in time, they become a good thing to have.....hug
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Apr 18, 2008 7:33 AM CST How forget?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
It takes time. A lot of time, a lot of thinking, a lot of crying, a lot of wondering.

Memories are there to keep both in your heart and in your head to prevent you making the same mistakes again.

Time is the hardest part.

teddybear
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Apr 18, 2008 7:33 AM CST How forget?
kurzita
kurzitakurzitaXaghra, Gozo Malta9 Threads 1,019 Posts
prncss4someone: you never forget, they become a small part of you...it's called memories, and in time, they become a good thing to have.....


why forget?

It's the colours of one's life....

wink
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Apr 18, 2008 7:39 AM CST How forget?
lavender84
lavender84lavender84S. Venera, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 168 Posts
From one side is better forget because when i stop thinking what i lost and the opportunity that i lost to have special moments i get really angry. From the other side i know that forget is impossible and at least u will have special memories to keep in yourself! Sometimes is hard but it will pass roll eyes
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Apr 18, 2008 7:39 AM CST How forget?
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
kurzita: why forget?

It's the colours of one's life....



cheers so true!
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Apr 18, 2008 7:40 AM CST How forget?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Gino Vanelli : I Just Wanna Stop


When I think about the way the world must turn
I get the saddest thoughts for you and me
Memories of life and times go on and on
Ooh, Ive tried hard to forget it
But my mind wont let it

I just wanna stop
And tell you what I feel about you babe
I just wanna stop
The world aint right without you babe
I just wanna stop
For your love

Ooo, Ive tried so hard to take it
But oh lord my heart wont make it


I've been there before, it takes time to get over an ex. But it is a choice and a process of letting go and learning from it and not taking anything personal....just my two cents....
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Apr 18, 2008 7:45 AM CST How forget?
lavender84
lavender84lavender84S. Venera, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 168 Posts
I am a dreamer blushing
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Apr 18, 2008 7:45 AM CST How forget?
kurzita
kurzitakurzitaXaghra, Gozo Malta9 Threads 1,019 Posts
sxc666: It takes time. A lot of time, a lot of thinking, a lot of crying, a lot of wondering.

Memories are there to keep both in your heart and in your head to prevent you making the same mistakes again.

Time is the hardest part.


How funny.....

time seems endless to those enjoying thier spring....

whereas time seems a flash for those in their autumn...

Take the word of those of us who have been there, and back, and there again...

Life is for living.
Pain will make u discover joy.
Mistakes teach u things.

and from another thread I quote stress free...

living is now.

Time is just an illusion.

yay
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Apr 18, 2008 7:47 AM CST How forget?
lavender84
lavender84lavender84S. Venera, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 168 Posts
StressFree: When I think about the way the world must turn
I get the saddest thoughts for you and me
Memories of life and times go on and on
Ooh, Ive tried hard to forget it
But my mind wont let it

I just wanna stop
And tell you what I feel about you babe
I just wanna stop
The world aint right without you babe
I just wanna stop
For your love

Ooo, Ive tried so hard to take it
But oh lord my heart wont make itI've been there before, it takes time to get over an ex. But it is a choice and a process of letting go and learning from it and not taking anything personal....just my two cents....


I`m not talking about an ex! I am talking just about a person that gave me sensations.. that`all! Sensations really difficult to put in a corner and forget! What can i do? This is me!
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Apr 18, 2008 7:47 AM CST How forget?
kurzita
kurzitakurzitaXaghra, Gozo Malta9 Threads 1,019 Posts
lavender84: I am a dreamer


nothing wrong in that.

Most of us are.

bouquet
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Apr 18, 2008 7:48 AM CST How forget?
lavender84
lavender84lavender84S. Venera, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 168 Posts
kurzita: nothing wrong in that.

Most of us are.

Me too much but auhahuahu!
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Apr 18, 2008 7:48 AM CST How forget?
kurzita
kurzitakurzitaXaghra, Gozo Malta9 Threads 1,019 Posts
lavender84: I`m not talking about an ex! I am talking just about a person that gave me sensations.. that`all! Sensations really difficult to put in a corner and forget! What can i do? This is me!


Learn.
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Apr 18, 2008 7:52 AM CST How forget?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
lavender84: I`m not talking about an ex! I am talking just about a person that gave me sensations.. that`all! Sensations really difficult to put in a corner and forget! What can i do? This is me!


okaybouquet
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Apr 18, 2008 7:52 AM CST How forget?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
kurzita: How funny.....

time seems endless to those enjoying thier spring....

whereas time seems a flash for those in their autumn...

Take the word of those of us who have been there, and back, and there again...

Life is for living.
Pain will make u discover joy.
Mistakes teach u things.

and from another thread I quote stress free...

living is now.

Time is just an illusion.


What is funny?

I am speaking how I felt not how others who have been there and back and there and back again.

each to there own.

I will say I found time to be the hardest part for me. Time was not an illusion to me. It was something I felt and something I remember being very hard to deal with.
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Apr 18, 2008 7:56 AM CST How forget?
lavender84
lavender84lavender84S. Venera, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 168 Posts
kurzita: Learn.

What u mean?
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Apr 18, 2008 7:57 AM CST How forget?
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
sxc666: What is funny?

I am speaking how I felt not how others who have been there and back and there and back again.

each to there own.

I will say I found time to be the hardest part for me. Time was not an illusion to me. It was something I felt and something I remember being very hard to deal with.




comfort I don't think he meant funny, haha...more like funny...ironic.....trust me sweetie, in about 15 years, you'll understand the time/illusion theory....ah...I may be in the autumn of my life, but I refuse to walk in it, I keep both feet firmly planted in the springtime.....bouquet
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Apr 18, 2008 8:00 AM CST How forget?
lavender84
lavender84lavender84S. Venera, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 168 Posts
If u never find special person, when u find one is difficult to forget! This is what i mean!
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Apr 18, 2008 8:00 AM CST How forget?
katiecharlyn
katiecharlynkatiecharlyndublin, Georgia USA8 Threads 2,748 Posts
prncss4someone: I don't think he meant funny, haha...more like funny...ironic.....trust me sweetie, in about 15 years, you'll understand the time/illusion theory....ah...I may be in the autumn of my life, but I refuse to walk in it, I keep both feet firmly planted in the springtime.....
aww,so nicely said princess comfort ditto! hug teddybear
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Apr 18, 2008 8:01 AM CST How forget?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
prncss4someone: I don't think he meant funny, haha...more like funny...ironic.....trust me sweetie, in about 15 years, you'll understand the time/illusion theory....ah...I may be in the autumn of my life, but I refuse to walk in it, I keep both feet firmly planted in the springtime.....

ooohhh Ok yeah and I agree with you. teddybear
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