Could you/would you......... (55)
nomindgamesPainesville, Ohio USA168 Threads 1 Polls 3,154 PostsIf someone wanted me in their life,the illness wouldn't stop me.I would hope to make the person laugh and have some good memories.Sometimes terminal means a few years or more.I would not fall in love and marry.I would make that clear from the start.I wouldn't pity them,most people hate that.Want to be treated like eveyone else.If this freind wanted me to I would be there when it was time to pass,hold hands,pray together,whatever.
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I havent read all posts?
But last being Polansks...we are all dying...
I am at times helping a person who has cancer it is hard work?
I do not have any intamacy with her she is 74 yrs.And very demanding of my time.But it is unconditinal love but takes time energy from me .I really dont mind as I will be repaid.Thats my take on life death.
But last being Polansks...we are all dying...
I am at times helping a person who has cancer it is hard work?
I do not have any intamacy with her she is 74 yrs.And very demanding of my time.But it is unconditinal love but takes time energy from me .I really dont mind as I will be repaid.Thats my take on life death.
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Thank you Kidatheart n Nomindgames for your input.........
Something to think about...........
Something to think about...........
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been there done that. and in all honesty, despite the pain, i'd do it again rather than miss a minute with my beloved.
i guess the perspective i gained was that we are all terminally alive, and if we find love that lasts, one will be left behind. honestly it takes tremendous courage to keep an open heart. i think we should all congratulate ourselves here at CS for doing just that.
of course my philosophy is not for everyone
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i guess the perspective i gained was that we are all terminally alive, and if we find love that lasts, one will be left behind. honestly it takes tremendous courage to keep an open heart. i think we should all congratulate ourselves here at CS for doing just that.
of course my philosophy is not for everyone
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I would say No, because they could still be there for that person as a friend, but it all depends on their situation.
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sure love is a beautiful thing....its like themovie a walk to remember....
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No, I don't believe I would...at least I wouldn't begin a new relationship with someone I knew was to die soon.
I watched my late husband die of cancer and I couldn't bear to go through it again.
I watched my late husband die of cancer and I couldn't bear to go through it again.
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That's a question I don't think you can answer till you're in the situation. Love can't be predetermined like that.
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DangerouslySweet: Start a relationship with someone if you knew they were terminally ill???
If you said mentally ill, I might have a shot.
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blissfull: we are all terminally alive, and if we find love that lasts, one will be left behind. honestly it takes tremendous courage to keep an open heart. i think we should all congratulate ourselves here at CS for doing just that. of course my philosophy is not for everyone
Works for me, that's a great way to look at life. ------ This thread is Archived ------
Aries01: I agree its very much a situational thing.. depends on the level of feelings etc.. I wouldn't say never.. but I wouldn't just for the sake of it (would be pity based..not right).. having said that.. friendship.. definitely (if there were a basis for same)
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DangerouslySweet: Start a relationship with someone if you knew they were terminally ill???
I would, absolutely! I have lupus (which while not terminal can be quite serious at times) and I would hope and pray that that would not stop someone from falling in love and starting a relationship with me ------ This thread is Archived ------
Dont_Look_Now: I would, absolutely! I have lupus (which while not terminal can be quite serious at times) and I would hope and pray that that would not stop someone from falling in love and starting a relationship with me
Love doesn't consider everything, sometimes it just happens, because it feels right.
I can't say 'no'. I just can't.
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DangerouslySweet: But Could you fall in love with someone knowing that they were terminally ill when you met them?
When you are falling in love with somebody,it does not matter if that person is ill or not....that is what i think,it would not stop me anyway...
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Dont_Look_Now: I would, absolutely! I have lupus (which while not terminal can be quite serious at times) and I would hope and pray that that would not stop someone from falling in love and starting a relationship with me
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