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hey you! =oD


doing good today, you?

why set yer self up again


heck with that i don't even talk to her now that the kids are grown and out of her crib

i even prefer not to think about her but all these ex this ex that threads lol

but hey tis of no consequince

she might as well be dead to me for all i care

not good for the kids tho

So are you saying that IF it could happen, you would go back?

I don't think I would, we are ex's for a reason.

That's not to say though that it is all a matter of timing..I dunno

I have been with the same guy since I was 15, engaged at 18, married at 20 then celebrated 27years of marriage.We have been seperated for the past 4 years. That my friends is the biggest part of my life. But no, I would not go back. I have to find a new life for myself.scary but I know that other people have managed it, so why should'nt I

no

I think back and wonder sometimes for sure because as Ninamoosha as stated I do look at life differently now and I have learned from my mistakes .... I was young and naive and so was he but it doesn't mean that our love wasn't real .... its more like we had no clue what we were doing and how to be in a relationship.

I personally think that communication,relationship and parenting skills are something that we need to be taught and that more of a focus needs to be put into these subjects through education and community resources. If relationships and family are the foundation of our society how can we produce strong and contributing members of society when these skills are not taught and practiced? I personally think that there would be far fewer failed relationships and marriages and much happier and healthier children being raised if there was a stronger focus on personal development.