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gongmanCarcassone, Occitanie France28 Threads 2 Polls 515 Posts
Emoticon limit......3 per post. I kept it to one!
FlowerOfTheSun: Elley, thank you for mentioning us ... However, our situation was rather more simple although it could sound complicated when explained ...
See the fact is that although I am Spanish, I've lived abroad (France and UK) for most of my life and I had reached a turning point in my life where I had made the decision to return to my roots before I met Gongman ... My stuff was already in storage labelled destination Spain (my parents under-used house), I had already quit my job and sold my house and was living (still in the UK) out of a couple of suitcases in the spare room at some friends, till paperwork was sorted (although - as some know - at one stage, I had contemplated doing a detour via Oz land before heading for Spain ...
As for Gongman (From UK), he had already decided to settle in Spain after living in France for a few years and had been living near Malaga for just over a year when we met ...
Although we organised our first face to face meeting in France, I was pretty much ready to leave the UK for Spain and he was already settled there ... We still had to make the effort to travel in order to meet, but the rest was simple as it was easy to redirect my stuff to be delivered here once we decided to go for it
We are doing great including the dotting the i's and crossing the t's (communicating, sharing, accepting, setting healthy bounderies, respecting one anothers values, loving and cherishing) that comes with every relationship that is worth having Every day is a pleasure to wake up to
See the fact is that although I am Spanish, I've lived abroad (France and UK) for most of my life and I had reached a turning point in my life where I had made the decision to return to my roots before I met Gongman ... My stuff was already in storage labelled destination Spain (my parents under-used house), I had already quit my job and sold my house and was living (still in the UK) out of a couple of suitcases in the spare room at some friends, till paperwork was sorted (although - as some know - at one stage, I had contemplated doing a detour via Oz land before heading for Spain ...
As for Gongman (From UK), he had already decided to settle in Spain after living in France for a few years and had been living near Malaga for just over a year when we met ...
Although we organised our first face to face meeting in France, I was pretty much ready to leave the UK for Spain and he was already settled there ... We still had to make the effort to travel in order to meet, but the rest was simple as it was easy to redirect my stuff to be delivered here once we decided to go for it
We are doing great including the dotting the i's and crossing the t's (communicating, sharing, accepting, setting healthy bounderies, respecting one anothers values, loving and cherishing) that comes with every relationship that is worth having Every day is a pleasure to wake up to
FlorGongman, we are all so so happy for you, you are both a shining beacon of what we might achieve. Here,s hoping.
Elley: FlorGongman, we are all so so happy for you, you are both a shining beacon of what we might achieve. Here,s hoping.
On a different note ... there's a festival we might be going to in Cadiz in Aug ... since we haven't made it that way yet ... still have to go get my car from UK ...
guiriman: Ah ok. so there's no need to be proactive. Just sit at home and wait for her to drop from the sky.
The original question is pointless then??
The original question is pointless then??
:)
oh no stop. you do have to get exposed! and no don't go exposing your self.
i was given an assignment to go out and meet 5 to 7 men a week. would have been so fun if i was ever up for it. may one a month would do me. all it it takes is one good one you know.
i like to think of it as fishing. you throw your hook out there and never know what you will catch. sometimes you got to throw some back. but the big ones you keep. and sometimes when your not even looking a whopper will come and just take that bait naturally............. you get my point dear.
i have not done to much fishing myself but i have watched the best and sometimes it all comes back to you.
the point dear is to use good bait. you got to know what they like. sometimes it takes marshmallows you've got to know what your after. you might have to change bait or it just might be to late........
sometimes you just have to face it your not a good fisherman. and do give up the game like my poor friend gail who is to the point she will not even consider a date with a perfectly fine veternarian btw. that is so sad but does happen. can you have a happier life that way? i wonder.
next you will tell someone just fell through your ceiling and you are now in love. so funny but stranger things have happened. not to me of course. do you think if we all visualized this (the two people that make it all through this garbage e mail or post) it might happen for you sweetie?? we could see this beautiful woman sky diving and she glides in to your what??? by the way she glides does not come crashing through the roof on to your head. just into your bed, sweetheart.
if you are going to sit home. make sure your having fun doing something you love in a space you love with friends or family if you are fortunate or get a pet. one you can stand would be nice. :) nancamp
guiriman: Has anyone actually pulled in a supermarket? Please tell..
pulled in a supermarket....? still trying to figure that one out. pull your leg....? i just don't know.
no, not while shopping i don't think. i was from a small town so sometimes you did see hotties you knew and did have to greet. and then there is always the real cute check out guy or store owner sometimes. i have been asked for directions and was hoping one time. but they actually wanted to get where they were going, no doubt.
you could stand there and admire the melons forever and get no action. although i still do try. i do buy the best apples...:hint hint. if you do see me shopping you can always talk to me about my apples, not melons, well sort of in between ?, can't figure that one out.
but i think steaks get most of the guys, seems to be where they shop. wine:
gongman: Emoticon limit......3 per post. I kept it to one!
so greatful my dear. was this some contest i knew nothing of???
FlowerOfTheSun:
We are doing great including the dotting the i's and crossing the t's (communicating, sharing, accepting, setting healthy bounderies, respecting one anothers values, loving and cherishing) that comes with every relationship that is worth having Every day is a pleasure to wake up to
We are doing great including the dotting the i's and crossing the t's (communicating, sharing, accepting, setting healthy bounderies, respecting one anothers values, loving and cherishing) that comes with every relationship that is worth having Every day is a pleasure to wake up to
Flower of the Sun, I loved your post, marvelous writing, i understood everything! Loved where your coming from. actually read your very nice profile.
enjoy your man so many of us don't. make sure you tell him how thank full you are for him every day every hour if you can. i do love thanking my man......who i do so appreciate so very dxxx much...........ummmmmmmm
Does make life worthwhile; doesn't it?
thank you thank you for dropping into my sublime life, so very wonderful you did; i just run out of super words to describe my feelings where you are concerned. you know you, darling, are my Superman with a capital S. you are so GOOD to me. umm. say something like this.
my advice, i love helping; can you can tell. my help good, who knows who cares. i can say reading your profile; you look wonderful my dear. very proud to have women like you be sisters to me. you also write good english which is strange round here. haha :) you all do get the benefit of all of all my reading, from all of these years...
you are a little younger than me but what diff is there when your finally older and around 50! so great to see you dating close to your age; not like me. stuck with all these young, so young hot, hot guys. oh man, doestnt every body want my problems? they are so bad. ha ha jesus i am tired of raising kids, did i mention that??
so funny sometimes; these kids know much more than i thank god.
advice: Flower - make sure you are living with no fear, please. don't be afraid of not having someone. make sure you are with your #1 guy. not saying he isn't but just want you to be truly happy. i really only mention this because it is something us women do battle at times. i have so many times.
in the sedona method Arthur tells us fear and you will make it happen. i try to live fearless when i can; do nice things for myself to give me confidence. imagine me with more?? i am intimidating as is, i am told.
sometimes we settle you know, us women (& men do to) when we settle it is no good. maybe we get tired and need the rest.....i don't know but i know i need the best, really the best or its not worth it at all anymore.
if we dont settle, we or me can live alone, talk to myself, my plants & oh yeah, i talk to everything including myself.........no wonder i enjoy posting so much. do enjoy alone time. need it...
so glad i finally got the pleasure to read all about this, finally. so very happy for any love in this world and thankful when i get the best. thank you universe or who ever that is that makes my life so good. thank you again. God and Goddess of Love, you know who you are, a big Thank you my friends from within.
Elley, dear elley, enjoy you too, your last sentence sweetie, so glad you said it, not me!! i am so happy today as you can tell. enjoying life a bit, isn't it a thrill......so about dxxx time. i am doing so well at this no cussing thing i have vowed to accomplish.
it is so freeing just to say,"Go straight to H word" i do i say fword and s word. but i don't say the actual word. you know what i mean. is this still considered cussing??
got to work on those ground rules i fear. later dear, i have a busy wonderful day again ahead of me.
wishing you all and yours a wonderful day and life too. don't you just love someone in love; not saying i am btw (by the way)
it is a beautiful day in my neighborhood ;(i know i am so sappy) is it a beautiful day in yours??
doing first time karoke sunday...... no fear here...no no i said NO.
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