There are people who think that the success of a relationship has it's own engine! ( Archived) (31)

i remember i had started dating a guy who was in his late 30's, claiming to really wanting to have a stable relationship and that i was perfect at that moment.

we went to visit a couple, his friends. We took a great walk, my man and her started flirting heavily...i could conclude that when we were to say goodbye...their intense staring and smiles, all that BS. I even had to walk away a bit cause i was feeling left over. Then i told him that it was horrible that he was flirting...he told me there's nothing wrong with that...it would never happened, it was just for the fun of it!

Heeeeeeeeeeell no, i thought it was disrespectful and that that behaviour is really a risk exposure, if someone likes having that behaviour, he/she is looking to get burned...that's not a long term kinda man...

Guys, learn what it takes to still feel the pleasure to love your women after decades together...

...so, tell me why you flirt just to flirt or do dangerous stuff...why do you feel the need to feel constantly desired by everyone?

Opps, this must be the essence of men...i hope we can still discuss this though...

flirting in FRONT of you is a definite lack of respect.. that's reeeally rude

I don't think that kind of behaviour is worth talking about. I would have left him to finish his business.

he told me that her sister and brother-in-law do that constantly just for fun

so funny ...and he had had other relationships, he claimed to be tired of jumping around...well, almost 40, has not really got the thing...like many others...here ...who just want a love story...and, well, yeah

yes my dear

yeah I agree

I had a Bf once.. who while we were talking with other people... went to say something to me and forgot my name.. but.. just went.. 'Ermm.. erh.. whatever your name'


I was sooo embarrassed. .. No 'sorry' .. no 'Oops'.. no nothing.



Funnily enuff the same person that flicked me (HARD!) in the forehead (it hurt a lot!)... in front of people I have never met before on a night out. Shouldn't have done it at all.. but the same.. no Aaaww.. no Sorry.. no nothing.

I was stunned.. and it made me feel like a complete idiot.. as well as showing me what he thought of me.

sad but funny

take care of yourself Claire

yeah and very rude and disrespectful

When I am dating someone, I go out of my way to make her feel like she was the only woman on Earth.

Some guys act flirtatious because of a lack of respect for their partner. That is all it is...lack of respect.