How to find a partner in CS? ( Archived) (85)

Finance is only one part, there are so many more important issues than that, OK, we say a guy has all that, Cars, Houses, a good Job and steady income, what about other things, that you consider as well.


It depends, what your age is? if you are young, simply you can fall in love and even quickly to have few children even if you don't have one penny in your pocket, I said about elders that they need to consider that because they don't want to start from scratch, they've done that and they are in one another level of life.

We all will be happy to hear some success stories and to know how they've done it. Please share your success with us.

One thing is desire, and the other is faith when these two mix with Love then everything is possible.

Yes, the first thing is that you need to know which kinds of person you want to be your partner...............................

Do you have any idea about who is going to be your partner?

You think, how long?

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What ever we do is in real life, even what we type here,

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To find a partner whether here or in real life I believe starts with yourself and deciding what's important to you as an individual. To ask yourself some questions and being honest with yourself about it - because if you're wishy-washy how the heck can you truly know what to look for in another?

Being upfront and honest with someone here as well ......... are you chatting with 10,000 other people at the same time? That's fine for a time - but be honest about it ........ and realistic to understand that you can't expect people to be laying their hearts on the line under those circumstances. If you want people to be "real" - then you need to be that too.

Ask yourself .......... do you want children? Will it make or break the relationship if it doesn't happen?
Or are you determined to be near family/friends?

Are you willing to relocate if necessary? Will you be able to find work if that happens? Are you willing to put in the time and energy to get to know someone "long distance" or are you better off seeking someone closer to where you currently reside?

How about religious/faith beliefs - does this play a part in your decision?


It comes down to give and take and compromising along the way - but thinking about what you can't compromise on is vital - but don't have a huge list. Everything else can be worked on if both people are willing to work together.

I think finding love and falling in love can be easy - but its about finding someone who's willing to go on the "long haul" road trip until the end of time. No one knows the road map - all we can do is navigate day by day and remember to make some pit stops along the way.

These are only a few thoughts that have come to my mind ......................... decide for yourself what is truly important to you .............. seek those things in another ................................ the minor details can be worked on along the way.

Love and a relationship can be approached as a goal .......... but there is always that elusive quality "a pinch of love, chemistry, and spice" that needs to just happen on its own.