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Aug 10, 2008 2:38 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
One thing I have experienced is a few that compare you to a past relationship or parents, and no matter how hard you try they still see something wrong with you, cause you remind them of some little thing from the past.
How can someone be more to that person that does that? You are doomed without given a chance. We can all find little stuff like that in our past if we tried, but that doesn't mean the next person is the same, not over little stuff anyway.dunno
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Aug 10, 2008 2:42 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
darlynda
darlyndadarlyndatazewell, Tennessee USA49 Threads 4 Polls 1,093 Posts
mylifewithu: How do you use your past experiences?? Does it rule you, where you get upset over little stuff ? Or do you use it to better yourself? Or do you just make the next one pay for it??

I myself has grown past the little stuff , but most I meet haven't found that peace yet!!
i have learned from my past and it certainly doesnt rule me, and i do not take out my past relationships on a new one
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Aug 10, 2008 2:43 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
mylifewithu: One thing I have experienced is a few that compare you to a past relationship or parents, and no matter how hard you try they still see something wrong with you, cause you remind them of some little thing from the past.
How can someone be more to that person that does that? You are doomed without given a chance. We can all find little stuff like that in our past if we tried, but that doesn't mean the next person is the same, not over little stuff anyway.


People carry baggage,and subconsciously use it forward without even knowing it.

doh
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Aug 10, 2008 2:44 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
darlynda
darlyndadarlyndatazewell, Tennessee USA49 Threads 4 Polls 1,093 Posts
friendsfirst: People carry baggage,and subconsciously use it forward without even knowing it.
REALLYwow
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Aug 10, 2008 2:45 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
mylifewithu: Maybe cause someone on cs was thinking of us, you know like our ears are burning,


I think these forums are haunted.wow jaw drop








laugh

Just in case i'm right..........innocent

It's best to stay on the good side of things that go bump in the night.angel
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Aug 10, 2008 2:45 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
friendsfirst: People carry baggage,and subconsciously use it forward without even knowing it.
wave Hi Walter, yes thats true !thumbs up
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Aug 10, 2008 2:46 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
friendsfirst: I think these forums are haunted.

Just in case i'm right..........

It's best to stay on the good side of things that go bump in the night.
thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Could be hauntedlaugh wine
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Aug 10, 2008 2:49 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
mylifewithu: Hi Walter, yes thats true !


Lela.wave wine

hello
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Aug 10, 2008 2:52 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
I neither forget my past nor choose to live in it. It does, however, make a very useful compass...
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Aug 10, 2008 2:52 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
rwantin: I neither forget my past nor choose to live in it. It does, however, make a very useful compass...


philosophical approach....I like it.
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Aug 10, 2008 2:54 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Indyfella: philosophical approach....I like it.


Thank you sir. tip hat
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Aug 10, 2008 2:56 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
rwantin: Thank you sir.



My compass must be broke....all the women go the opposite direction. professor
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Aug 10, 2008 2:57 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Indyfella: My compass must be broke....all the women go the opposite direction.



I doubt it's because of your compass.......roll eyes uh oh dunno laugh
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Aug 10, 2008 2:57 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
rwantin: I neither forget my past nor choose to live in it. It does, however, make a very useful compass...
Same here, I use it to guide me, and nothing wrong with that.
But over little things like say you didn't care for your parents or an ex much and your new mate, happens to stir their tea the same, so now you judge them as that parent or ex. Those kind of things just don't make sense.

Hi Robertwave
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Aug 10, 2008 2:58 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Indyfella: My compass must be broke....all the women go the opposite direction.
hug rolling on the floor laughing comfort
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Aug 10, 2008 3:00 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
Indyfella: My compass must be broke....all the women go the opposite direction.


laugh

Sometimes you just gotta stand there.This way they get tired and have to rest.dunno

Funny,(peculiar) game ,in a not so funny way at times.
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Aug 10, 2008 3:00 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
darlynda
darlyndadarlyndatazewell, Tennessee USA49 Threads 4 Polls 1,093 Posts
Indyfella: My compass must be broke....all the women go the opposite direction.
rolling on the floor laughing you are so witty and so it the wantin guyyay
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Aug 10, 2008 3:00 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
mylifewithu: Same here, I use it to guide me, and nothing wrong with that.
But over little things like say you didn't care for your parents or an ex much and your new mate, happens to stir their tea the same, so now you judge them as that parent or ex. Those kind of things just don't make sense.

Hi Robert


Hi there. wave

No, it does not make sense at all - and strikes me as a quick route back to being single. It's an apples and oranges thing - don't try to bake your new orange into a pie. Or something like that. uh oh
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Aug 10, 2008 3:01 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: I doubt it's because of your compass.......


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


wow.
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Aug 10, 2008 3:01 PM CST Our Pasts!!!!!
simpleone
simpleonesimpleoneArkansas, USA3 Threads 52 Posts
My past doesn't rule me, although I will admit I haven't found the total peace yet of using it to better myself
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